what should I do now?

Question

yesterday my botfriend otld me that he needed some time alone to think about his life. he called a few hours later just to hear my voice, but i havent talked to him since.

I am not sure are we still together adn he just needs a coulple days, or if i got dumped????

also i miss him veryh much and i want to tell him, but i dont want to seem needy

How do i repair this situation so he comes back to me? and how do i find out if he dumped me or just needs time?

Answer 1

If you consider your relationship serious you can rest assure that your boyfriend is probably pondering weather to take the relationship to the next level.many instances people need time apart to ponder how much they need each other ,write him a letter expressing your feelings,since writing has more meditative power on the mind of a person and you do not want to pressure him,just support his decision,but also keep the hook in his mouth,gently reel him in,you go girl.

Answer 2

Give him his space. He will call you when he is ready. Calling him and being needy will only drive him farther away.

There is really nothing you can do right now. He has all the control. If you haven't heard from him in a week get yourself out there and start dating again.

When you meet the person for you, neither of you will want time apart to think.

Good luck!

Answer 3

it sounds like you were dumped, i'm sorry ... guys say that all the time "i need to figure out life" or "I need some space" ... I would sit back and wait a few days and if he calls just to hear your voice ... tell him to stop stringing you along and that if he wants you for good to call again otherwise to leave you alone. you don't need this game.

Answer 4

I would have asked how much time he needed. Then you allow him the time. Don't worry about being dumped. If its over--so be it.

Answer 5

what you need to do is talk to him. nothing we can say can help ytou. what you need to do is talk to him