she was very attracted to me. she thought of me for months before she approach me.she was not having any problems with her marriage. we try not talking but its like we are drawn to each other.she has alot to lose
2006-10-08 12:51:06 · 11 answers · asked by freaked out 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad idea to get involved with her, all it can lead to is trouble. Distance yourself from her before you find yourself in a sticky situation - no pun intended.
2006-10-08 12:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's BS. You most certainly can stop seeing each other. Just stop! So, she has a lot to loose huh? well, it doesn't seem to make much difference....you need to be the man and stop it right now. It's called self control. It's called living up to the commitment you made to another human being that has feelings and doesn't deserve to be treated like this. It's called wanting your cake and eating it too. So, stop or make your confessions and go be with each other, how does that sound? Not ready for that huh? It's OK as long as you're not inconvenienced, as long as you're the ones doing it but not if you have to live the reality of what you are doing to other people and they don't even know. I've heard a lot of sorry a** excuses but you just can't help it sounds like a two year old who stole a cookie. Grow up and do the right thing.
2006-10-08 13:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation once. It was kind of a forbidden love and we tried to stay away from eachother and not talk but the same kind of thing happened and we just could't stick with it. He ended up leaving me for the other woman in the end. It's hard, because feelings like that are very intense. You wonder how life could ever go on without them.
2006-10-08 12:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by jessarose143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you brother. This is a sincere inquiry/question. I think you're going to have to hurt some people's feelings, is my hunch. Some people are just meant to be together, some not. Unfortunately, you don't find out until later sometimes. I hope kids aren't involved. If they are, the noble thing is to walk away, and stay away. Yep, that's what I'd do. Good luck with this.
2006-10-08 12:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a married woman, so that means your playing with fire. What i suggest you do is give her an ultimatum tell her either get a divorce or ya'll don't see each other anymore. Because its not right what she's doing. You can't have your cake and eat it too. I am not trying to be mean, but being unfaithful is not kool.
2006-10-08 12:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by broken_dreams2637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all .. I pray that she doesn't have children .. If you are any kind of a man , you will break it off right now. You know that this will come to no good for anyone. End it. No communication with her what-so-ever. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-08 12:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think she won't do it to you. Integrity, comes with a price, her husband has earned his. Back off of another man's wife. You truly wouldn't want it done to you.
2006-10-12 09:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to hurt someone behind their backs then you have to stop it...
if you dont want things to happen to you the same thing that is happening right now..then stop..
its not easy to get hurt and its not good to break up someone else's home...
2006-10-08 12:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by carmel1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her unfaithful a s s oughta get a divorce!
2006-10-08 12:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe get away from her, as this may help!!!!
2006-10-08 12:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋