im a virgin and i keep meeting morons that just want to hit the sack. i even went to the church the guys are the same way.im about ready to give up or just become a lesbian
2006-10-08 12:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How will becoming a Lesbian prevent you from being hit on by guys? Never mind...
There are tests throughout life, and you can prove to yourself and others what sort of stuff you're made of. If you put guys as coming AFTER such things as an education, spiritual growth, etc. they will come flocking. Maintain your morals. Remember that "needy" women are a major turnoff. Men are attracted to women who can stand on their own two feet..so concentrate on the other priorities in your life until a worthy male turns up. Good luck!!!
2006-10-08 12:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by damad31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very down on yourself, yet, you mentioned you attended church. So, now a contradiction. Where is the patience, why is it you want it now. Life is given to those in abundance John10:10 Run the test, focus and pass it. Get the negative out of your head. Those type of thoughts don't come from obedience.
2006-10-10 11:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when I was in high school, I found some guys that wanted to date me but didn't pressure me for sex. they came out of the closet when they got into college.
straight, teen-age boys want sex from their girlfriends. straight adult men want sex from their girlfriends. doesn't matter their religion, morals, anything really. (If you become a lesbian it will be the same thing - the girls will want sex, too, so that's no reason to switch-hit)
just stay away from them until you're ready for that kind of relationship. pay attention to your education instead. there's plenty of time for guys.
DON"T LISTEN TO EMMA S
2006-10-08 19:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what ever you do don't become a lesbian. Just wait a while and see what happens!!!!
2006-10-08 19:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself, time is the best doctor to solve your problem and bring you the right One.
2006-10-08 19:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever down grade yourself to that. just keep looking .Mr. right is just around the corner. try the library and other places where ones your age gather.
2006-10-08 19:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one bit of advice i'm 14 and i had the same problem when i was a virgin then when i got my first serious bf i had sex we split but now i don't have that problem at all so yeah basically just have sex please them!! it's fun for both of you!! GOOD LUCK!! :)
2006-10-08 19:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by emma s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't become a lesbian, because then you wouldn't have a chance with me!!
2006-10-08 20:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up.
2006-10-08 19:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋