hi there. it maybe called fantasy but it can be real. i lost my first and true love 17 years ago. i had so many relationships already but in every year that passes, i often think and sometimes dream of my first girlfriend. i almost had her 17 years ago but i became a stupid guy and did things without thinking. now i am still in search of her hoping one day we will meet and just have a heart to heart conversation. i just probably want to apologize to her for losing her when everything was perfect for both of us 17 years ago. a few years after she got married, i sometime had a chance to talk to her sisters and they inform me that my girlfriend still loves me. now i dont know if she still feels the same. well i do and somehow i feel she does too. the hardest thing for me is often times i dream of her as if its real. to tell you the truth, those are times i really dont want to wake up at all. so it is possible for two people to fall in love even though they are not together.
2006-10-08 12:40:08
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answered by Eric 1
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Yes, to be honest, love sometimes is not enough. Been there before and despite years of intense love, we could not be together. Why? tons of reasons if we are talking in general like;
- Religious beliefs
- Social norms & values
- Attitude towards life - kids, career etc
- Residence area - some people are not willing to make certain sacrifices for the sake of the relationship, in my case was moving away to another country to puruse my career.
Love is great, but it involves a lot more than emotions and feelings to make it work and that is why you hear everyday of people breaking up, sometimes after years of being together. I would say the ultimate formula is love+ compatability and willing to make sacrifices on a regular basis (both of them)
2006-10-08 12:35:11
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answered by fozio 6
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I don't believe so. Because if TWO people REALLY LOVE each other they will be together or find a way to be together. Unless certain circumstances are keeping the two apart. For example: being in the armed forces, etc.
2006-10-08 12:38:39
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answered by smithloissm@sbcglobal.net 1
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It is possible for two people which are not together to feel love but in my opinion it is not real love.
2006-10-08 12:33:44
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answered by telis_gr1 5
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If you are asking if people can be in love but not in a relationship... yes
Believe it or not, love is not the most important thing in a relationship! Respect is at lease as, if not more important. You can love something, or think you love someone, but if you don't respect them or they don't respect you there is no way on God's green Earth that you should be in a relationship.
2006-10-08 12:33:23
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answered by David P 3
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what's love? Your going out with this large guy and he seems to make u chuffed, im chuffed for u. by making use of my expereince you are able to start to safeguard somebody alot in a short area of time and in one experience it particularly is love. once you be with some one for years and years you style a diverse style of bond and love, a unseflish style and that i think of that comes of course with time if the two considered one of you a keen to conform to each others needs. Its an exceptionally large place to be the place u r now, cherish the moments u have, and if with a bit of luck this time next 12 months u r nevertheless with him, ur love would be extra desirable and deeper ;-).
2016-10-19 01:17:18
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answered by ? 4
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Absolutely.
2006-10-08 12:31:54
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answered by mickeyg1958 4
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Yes, very much possible
2006-10-08 12:31:02
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answered by bernie2u4 6
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its possible but why arnt those 2 people together?
2006-10-08 12:34:23
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answered by *BR0WN EYESz <3 2
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Yes, its very sad but possible.
2006-10-08 12:32:25
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answered by TheKing72 1
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