I still love him, and i dont want to turn him in or anything, because i want to stay with him. Am i just stupid or what
2006-10-08 12:17:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let say it is not a wise choice for you to continue with this relationship...be a smart girl and do what you gotta do. He may even give it up.....you never know.
2006-10-08 12:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To do drugs is a way to destroy yourself, now you don't say what kind of drug he is taking but once I heard someone said: crystal meth doesn't change your principles; it makes you forget you have them.Drugs end up destroying not just a person's life but also affect his family.
You say so love him that's ok but I don't think he loves himself enough to be doing that and if so he cannot love you back now.
Do all you can to stop this but do not put yourself in risk for him, you might try to help him but it's up to him finally if he wants to leave the drugs.
Make sure he knows you support his recovery but stay away away if this addiction goes on because otherwise he'll get the message that this is not enough for you to leave him which I think it is.
2006-10-08 19:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Firelei P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just a sucker for punishment. Why spend your time with a loser? Get on with your life, if you have to move away, change your phone number, or change friends to get out of this going nowhere relationship. Life is way too short. I know a couple just like that, and he is 40, and she is 40, and they were supposed to be so "in love" about 20 years ago. Look now, he is on crack, she is bailing him out of jail, and has 2 teenagers to deal with. It don't get any better. Get a life while you still can.
2006-10-08 19:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on a few things, especially age cuz it goes towards maturity levels and responsibility..... if ur young no u shouldnt be around it.... let him know u dont approve. im 26 and this is my opinion on drug ussage. No doubt drugs r bad u shouldnt do them.... I feel like if im with someone n they smoke pot it doesnt bother me as long as they dont do it excessively other drugs as long as its occassionally i dont mind but if its alot then i dont want to be around it...... and they need to be honest about all of it cuz if they arent then they must have a prob, i believe if u love someone u try ur hardest to make it work but not to the point where u loose urself in the process and if u do stay with him NEVER SHARE THAT PART OF HIS LIFE NEVER TRY IT TO BECOME CLOSER OR SEE WHY HE LIKES IT that is something as a couple u should never share with one another.... trust me i know.... if u want to talk im me at sxyprncss_sb anytime ok....
2006-10-08 19:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by BROKEN SOUL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People on drugs need help, if you love him like you say you do, get him some help. You dont have to call the police on him, I suggest talking to his parents or his brother or sister to see what they suggest. Doing nothing is not showing you love him at all. Good luck.
2006-10-08 19:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your BF is doing Drugs then he does not respect himself !
He can not be happy with himself and therefore can not offer you his best.
If he loves you like you love him he would want to be a better person. I quote from the movie as good as it gets.
"metting you makes me want to be a better person"
So the answer is to leave him.
He is not worthy of you or any other Girl
He is not even a worthy friend to himself.
Good luck with what you decide
Fingers X
2006-10-08 19:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you love him??? enough to turn him in and give him another shot at a good life??? Real love is making those hard choices not what is easiest for you but what is the right thing for them.
2006-10-08 19:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by pegasus49663 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants help getting clean. If so, be supportive and stay by him. If he wants the drugs, walk away. However, don't make it an ultimatum of "The drugs or me!" He must want to be clean for himself, not for others, otherwise he will relapse and get worse.
2006-10-08 19:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best is to talk to a drug rehab people or police to get advice first before you tell him anything. Bad drugs do make people do bad things even violence. Be caution around him.
2006-10-08 19:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, whatever u like about him, drugs help shaped that. He can get very abusive if u take his **** away. I would. He is doing nuthin wrong to him, so leave him be.
2006-10-08 19:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋