abusive stepdad HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

My stepdad is very abusive. When I get mad he will threaten to hit me till my head explodes. I tried calling the police, my mom just lies to them

I'm 21 years old

I'm have lot of medical problems too

Answer 1

How old are you ?
That is how long you will have to put up with him...
Is it just possible that you are contributing to the problem ?

Answer 2

If you really believe your stepdad is abusive, and you are not exaggerating the issues then go to the police station and report it. Also tell the school councelor. Do you have an adult witness? Have you had bruises? The police will ask you many questions and you need to be honest. But please don't do this out of spite. Your stepdad could be arrested and you could be put into foster care, as well as any other children in the house. Be careful and be sure when you make any accusations.

Answer 3

Make a plan for an exit immediately! Call a friend or relative. Tell them you are in danger and that you need to stay there for a while until you find a place on your own. Don't wait for the next rage to leave. Leave now. Take this as a forced step to take a new adventure in your life. You're young and you should have plans. School, work, friends and fun. Others have done it and so can you. Don't be a victim - be a survivor.

Answer 4

It's time to go a bit further then. I suggest you use a digital camera and make a video of him doing this. (Hide the camera behind stuff but make it where the video can be shot at a good angle.) If that doesn't work, get neighbors, friends, family or other witnesses who WON'T lie to the police. If all else fails then just move out and live with a friend's family or a different family member.If things DO work out get your stepfather some counseling.

Good luck!!!

Answer 5

Tell us how old you are? You need to get out of that house, NoW.
There are agencies that can help you. No one ever need to take abuse, sexual, physical, or verbal. Tell Someone. Either a teacher, friends parents, or call or walk in an agency like a:
family resource center, womens center, or youth center.
The best choice may be your school as they are required to tell the state. Don't worry about making them mad. You will be protected and can later resume a relationship with your mother. Your safety is first. And if he is doing this to you he may be abusing your mother too.
Please get help. You should never have to live like that, EVER.

Answer 6

Verbal abuse is abuse too. I suggest you try a few of the resources below (websites and a phone number, too) for finding literature that may help your mom be more understanding and they should be a helpful source to you as well:

National Domestic Violence Hotline
http://www.ndvh.org/
1-800-799-SAFE


The Family Violence Prevention Fund
http://www.fvpf.org/


W. V. Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.wvcadv.org/

The National Resource Center on Domestic Violence
http://www.ncadv.org/

Peace and blessings to you

Answer 7

I'm no expert on subjects like this, but I would talk to the police again, and tell them how your mother is lying for your stepfather. Also try talking to a teacher, a relative, someone who works for an anti-abuse department, i.e. someone who can help!

Do NOT accept your stepfather's behavior or believe you cannot change your situation. There are people out there who will happily help you and you need to go find one of them.

Answer 8

are you able to checklist your stepdad to the government, or will he retaliate? in the experience that your mom would not stand up to him, she isn't a good number of a mom, for my section. An harmless puppy, or an harmless individual should not be subjected to abuse. additionally, a individual who abuses pets will quickly (if he hasn't already) circulate directly to abusing people. you would be able to desire to guard your puppy the main suitable you may proper now, and which potential getting him a good homestead the place he won't stay harm. examine with a veterinarian close to you to work out if their workplace needs an "workplace canines." in the event that they might grant him with a "homestead," i'm optimistic that they had be extra effective than chuffed to assist you pass to him. clarify the abuse your puppy is going by using, and ask if s/he has the different techniques concerning the thank you to assist your puppy. in case you're in possibility, and your mom won't or can no longer shelter you, please refer to somebody on your college. it truly is their criminal accountability to assist pupils on your difficulty. Please do no longer enable this occasion proceed...and be the main suitable puppy proprietor you'll be by potential of retaining your detrimental puppy!

Answer 9

Find a friend to take you to police station and file a report, It will help if there are bruises to prove he has abused you. Or go to the hospital, and tell them.

Answer 10

You have to work out what is better, staying at home or trying to get out, depends on how old you are but if you are between 16-18 you could get a flat check out shelter.com. Hope it all goes ok, stay strong and never feel beaten.

Answer 11

i'm sorry, i had a step dad that abused me too. i remember one time we went out to eat with my mom and we ate lunch at a restraunt and he kept kicking my legs under the table and hes like when your mom comes back dont tell her anything. try going to a school councelor, or you can try recording stuff that he says, and show the police, your mom won't have anything to say then....good luck!