The next day she flies off the handle over something that is easily explainable and jumps to conclusions..how should I deal with this woman? or should I just not deal with her at all?
2006-10-08 11:59:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some women jus have issues. Try to talk to her about how you feel and if there is no changes , then leave.
2006-10-08 13:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF
If you can keep your head when about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about,don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good,nor talk too wise:
If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;
If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make atrap for fools
Or watch the things you gave your life to,broken,
And stop and build ‘em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose,and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nevre and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which Says to them: “Hold on!”
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you,but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And-which is more-you’ll be a Man,my son!
(Rudyard Kipling sixty Poems,London 1939)
2006-10-08 19:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Atila a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity and past baggage often cause women to "fly off the handle" because it's like a defense mechanism or something it makes them feel in control and enables them to keep a safe enough distance from you so that you can't get to them.
2006-10-08 19:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by WOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, sorry but I think you'll just have to get used to it. It comes with being a woman. More often than not brought about by PMS, or irritating men!
2006-10-08 21:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is suffering from PMS which really is a serious condition. If you google PMS or PMDD you will be able to find some helpful information....If you love her you should definitely stick with her and maybe help her see that what going on with her is treatable!
Good Luck!
2006-10-08 19:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's bipolar or her emotional pengulum swings hard and overaction could also happen when she's sweet and nice..... Stay away from her. To much for you to handle. Tap it and run.
2006-10-08 19:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't deal with her at all. Totally avoid her for a few days and let her come back you to. If she doesn't come back it wasn't meant to be.
2006-10-08 19:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds bipolor....or really insecure with herself. If you want to be with her make her feel secure and happy in your relationship. Make her feel like number one until she feels comfortable in the relationship and builds the trust.
2006-10-08 19:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is dealing with depression.
2006-10-08 19:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she an emotional roalercoaster? Or do you just annoy her?
2006-10-09 23:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by hippieiam29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋