My mother died and I have many questions about her death. She died suddenly. I don't appreciate the accusations. Some of you should find another topic to hang out in!!!
2006-10-08 11:59:20 · 6 answers · asked by sommerhill68 1 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Medicine
First, if you're going to open yourself to the opinions, attitudes, and behaviors encountered on the internet, then you need to toughen up. Seriously!
I'll take a look at your question. Maybe I can help. Maybe I can't. I'm sorry for your loss.
I've looked at all your questions. The pattern suggests that you are looking to blame someone for your mother's death. Sometimes people die from asthma. It's a reality. Talk to your mother's doctor. Seek some counseling to help you through this very sad event.
I hope I'm wrong with my assumption and maybe all you're trying to do is understand your mother's death. Asthma is a killer sometimes. Knowing that, however, will not appease your sense of loss. YA isn't the place for you. Talk with your father, your brothers and sisters, your aunts, uncles, and grandparents.
Talk with your priest, pastor, preacher, minister, teacher. If you're an adult and employed, see if your employer offers access to something like an EAP employee assistance program.
Again, sorry for your loss.
2006-10-08 12:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by OU812 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss, certainly when we loose someone we love it can be very difficult to cope. After reading all of your postings, I am assuming that you may be questioning the diagnosis given upon your mom's death. Now, I also don't know how old you are, if you live with other family members, or have a support system of your own due to being out on your own or possibly married. However, if you feel there may have been extenuating circumstances surrounding her death, you might want to speak to the family member closest to you whom you can trust and will understand your concerns, and/or phone the district attorney's office in your city and/or the coroner's office and request they perform another autopsy. Understand that you may need to convince the DA or the county coroner that there is due reason for your concerns. If you have any proof that foul play may be involved, make sure this is available when you make your contacts. If you are young and afraid that your father or other family members might not agree with you, please consider speaking to a priest at your church, or another adult that you think you can trust and ask for their advice. Asthma can be a very serious condition, especially in people that are non-compliant with their meds or treatment plans. There are so many unanswered questions here, I don't feel anyone could answer you without knowing all the underlying details of your mom's illness. Again, I feel the best thing would be to request the autopsy be repeated if you have any doubts in your mind. Good luck, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
2006-10-09 06:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sax Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the guy said, asthma can kill people. When my daughter was 2, I took her to the dr and they were going to charge me with neglect because I didn't take her to the ER. She had just gotten home from her dad's and her respirations were 60, all the oxygen was poisoning her system and would have killed her.
Please take some concellation in knowing that because you posted here, some people may have learned that asthma can kill, I had no idea how serious it is.
I am very sorry about losing your mom. I miss my mom terribly. Your mom's death and the harassment you've been feeling here may very well save a life because someone else learned more about asthma.
2006-10-09 07:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by megmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you were harassed-that happens on here sometimes. but I haven't seen too many REAL doctors on here. Lawyers, cops,other people-stupid and smart, nice and mean but still no doctors--have seen few nurses though...
good luck but it would be better to talk to the Med. examiner or other LOCAL authority about your mothers case.
just my opinion
2006-10-08 12:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I have no idea as to what you are referring, but don't you think you should ask a medical professional? Or, if you don't want to pay, try WebMD.
This place is no to ask a serious medical question.
My condolences at your loss.
2006-10-08 12:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by savethegnome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lacking a pair of screws and if someone were given right here up and licked my face in a public position Instinctively identity hit them or what ever to get them the f*ck out of my face warmth or now no longer.
2016-12-04 10:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋