How do you feel about your teenage son bringing a girl up to his room to watch a movie or something? i've gone up to several guys rooms under various pretenses when they're parents were right there. it felt a little weird to me so I was wondering if this is normal. Also, do the same rules apply to girls bringing guys up to their bedrooms?
and just so you know, we didn't like have sex, or even make out in their room, but we easily could've. it's just hard for me to imagine bringing a guy up to my room, even innocently, right in front of my parents.
2006-10-08 11:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's a sign that your parents are doing a great job with you if taking a guy to your room seems wierd. It is not a safe thing to do. I have young boys, but they will never be allowed to take girls into their rooms unless it is to grab a jacket or something else quickly before leaving.
2006-10-08 11:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by TXChristDem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We do not allow our children to bring people into their room because it is an open invitation, and this is their private area. We allow friends to come over but they are to stay out in the living room. If our kids are going to watch a movie with their boyfriend/girlfriend they are in the living room with the other family members. Otherwise they aren't allowed to come over. It is a form of respect.
2006-10-08 19:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the mother of a 16 yr old boy. Girls do go to his room But the door has to stay open & I walk in when ever I like. If I catch anything going on. That girl never goes back to his room.I only give him a little lead way when it comes to girls.
2006-10-08 22:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not allow a teenaged girl to go to my son's room to watch TV or do homework. I wouldn't allow a boy to go to my daughter's room either. They can watch TV in the livingroom/den, do homework in the kitchen/dining room (I would make sure it was quite enough to study). It isn't a matter of trust, I feel why make a situation available. Kids will do what they will, but not in my house.
2006-10-08 19:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent I do not feel the bedroom is a place to entertain. Not all are going to be doing things we would prefer they not, just do not feel is appropriate. LOL as an adult I would not entertain a person of the opposite sex in my bedroom. Is my private space.
2006-10-09 13:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD PUT THE FEAR OF GOD IN MY SON IF HE EVER TOOK A GIRL TO HIS ROOM OR ANY OTHER ROOM FOR THAT MATTER IM NOT RAISING HIS BABIES WHILE HE IS UNDER MY ROOF! IT ONLY TAKES 1 TIME AND 1 SPERM TO MAKE A BABY BUT 18 YEARS TO RAISE IT I WOULD FOCUS ON SCHOOL IF I WERE YOU AND LEAVE THE BOYS ALONE
2006-10-08 19:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good idea not to even start going to the bedroom of the opposite sex.
2006-10-08 18:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was not allowed to have boys in her room.
If she wanted to watch TV we have a theater room.....we made it a point to "visit" every so often.
We trusted her but we also wanted them to know we cared enough to pay attention.
2006-10-08 18:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just keep the door open so you don't feel unconfortable!
2006-10-08 20:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do it that's all i know.
2006-10-08 18:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋