theres this guy. he likes me. he thinks i like him. we go to the same school and if i hurt or make him mad it'll be hell for me. how to i let him know there ain't no attraction i have for him. none.
2006-10-08 11:50:48 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The "friend" speech and "I'm not attracted to you" are honest, but if that will cause problems, a ruse might be better. I'd avoid the suggestion of saying you have an STD, though.
2006-10-08 12:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by Driftwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a difficult situation. You must handle it delicately and with compassion. Say to him very gently, and while gently touching his arm, I don't know why I don't feel that way about you. You are a terrific guy, but it is just not there for me and I don't want to be the kind of girl who leads someone on, you deserve better than that. I hope you can find someone who will have all those special feelings for you because that is what you most deserve.
Memorize that and practice it in front of a mirror so that you can say it with gentle compassion.
2006-10-08 18:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him only as a friend
there ain't no feeling that would suport a relationship between you to andthoese feel must be there do you know the song you can't start a fire with out a spark it is so true.and if he's the kind that gets that mad the sooner the better waiting will only it more difacult
2006-10-08 18:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh.. Yes I've been in the same exact situation and its hard.. But the worse thing you could do would be to lead him on.. that just makes things worse in the end. Find ways to let him know he is not your type, or come straight out and let him know; that can be hard to do at times though, especially if you have to see this guy every day at school.. Good luck though!
2006-10-08 18:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by L-O-V-E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can act like you are the most boring person on the planet and maybe he wouldn't be interested in you after that. Or do something he doesn't like. Like talk a lot then or some other annoying habits then he will move on I think...I am not sure if that will work but that's some advice I was given before when a guy I wasn't interested in was interested in me.
2006-10-08 18:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will it be hell for you? Just let him know you are not attracted to him. If he gives you any static, get a teacher or your principal involved.
2006-10-08 18:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know you like him as a friend but not much more than that .Be nice and easy about it .
2006-10-08 18:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I know. You will get Brian and Hannah and whoever else you jolly well feel like to talk to him. Well, at least thats what you did.
2006-10-10 21:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by me.. :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the Hell just tell him, you are not interested is any personal things with him because .......
2006-10-08 18:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be around him and if you are make sure he looks then walk away. do that a few times it would work for me
2006-10-08 18:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋