now, she was receptive and happy about it at the end of our date, and I also talked to her on the phone the next night. I had left a message the night after that but no call back from her and she has been gone all weekend too so I didn't expect a call all weekend here. Now my question is will I look to needy or worried if I just try calling her tonight or will she be appreciative of it even though I last left a message last Thursday to call me that night if she had a chance. My next question would be if it would come across to weird to her if I just told her I missed her this weekend...or does that come across as needy too. So my questions are should I call first tonight without waiting to see if she calls and to say I missed her or not without doing any harm. Things have been going well and I just don't want to blow it but I also i know I need to stay cool
2006-10-08 11:36:11 · 7 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't call her again if you've already left a message, because as you say, you don't want to sound needy. find something to occupy you're time so you don't drive yourself crazy about wondering why she hasn't called yet. She will call when she gets around to it. Be patient.
2006-10-08 11:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you will deturmine how u be percieved. If you guys are older, and she got her firing squad of friends that she tells everything, then it might be percieved as needy. She prolly misses u to. Just cause, they way ur talking about that kiss, it was just a freebie for keeping her awake that night, it was a promise of future company. Call her and check on here vibe before saying u missed her, just make sure u have a topic to talk about before u call. Just in case she not as receptive.
2006-10-08 18:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call her, but do not tell her you missed her, unless she asks. Ask her how her weekend was. If she does not answer, do not leave a message. Only try to call her once, if she does not answer, do not leave a message or keep trying. When she gets in, she will call you back.
2006-10-08 18:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower.... Back off... she has your message... if she has been gone all week-end , she will call when she is back....
You will smother her with this behaviour... you are not desperate, go the movies with guys or go to the gym.....GET BUSY DOING SOMETHING ELSE.....
2006-10-08 18:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space.
2006-10-08 18:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by bobbob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call her tonight. She will call you.
2006-10-08 18:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow.
2006-10-08 18:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mexicool187 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋