Girls, can you see through your man or a man??

Question

Let's face it... in this real world, there are so many jerks around...

How many girls out of how many girls do you think can see through the real color of a man?

At what age, a female are supposed to be able to do this? or it will never happen?

How many relationships a female must go through to be able to do this?

All and all... let's say... you've been cheated once, how many more times you may be cheated again (based on your experience or prediction)?

Did you learn from the past or you didn't?
Why? What makes you learn and what makes you don't learn a single thing about your pass mistakes?

Answer 1

I would say 20 out of 100 would be able to read a guy like a book. The age part is very difficult to say, it depends on how many times you are **** on. It also depends on how many relationships, it depends on each relationship and how they have been played. I dont like to be played so I have learned very quickly. Yes, I did learn from my past, however, it also depends on how much I like the person that I am with. Usually, my guys are just friends, not that I am a lesbian, but I would rather have friends than a boy/girlfriend relationship. What made me learn was by being played so much and being in a relationship for 8 years, committing myself to that relationship and learning that men are jerks and they do what they want anyway. But, I also know that one day there will be a guy out there that is all about me and going to show me the attention that I yearn for. Some people never learn because they do not pay attention to their past. They leave that in the past and do not connect the past with anything. I hope this helps you understand your question and why some women are the way they are.

Answer 2

They say love is blind. When you're in a relationship with a controlling, manipualating guy for the first time you might not realize it (even when your friends are saying he's a jerk) A couple more times..you might recognize it. It's different depending on the women also..some could be incredibly niave and others could keep a steady watchful eye on their guy.

I've been able to see right threw guys. I'm currently in a relationship and I can tell he's not gonna turn bad. I've been in relationships with jerks before and there's been some signs that I could easily pick out.

I don't think females will ever be able to completely see through guys. Anyone can swoop you off your feet within a couple seconds and seem like the perfect guy then turn into a jerk w/o you even seeing it coming.

Answer 3

I'm 31. I've had a few solid relationships and a lot of partners, I'm on good terms with almost all of these people, I'm pretty savvy as to who I'm dealing with. I might get cheated on again, but they're not going to be able to lie to me about it-or anything major- with me being able to tell something's up.

My partner & I have been together for 4 years, and its the longest realtionship I've been in. He came along after I'd been completely fed up with the dating scene and been single for over a year and had decided to stay that way (I've never been married). He was just someone I went kayaking with, the intimate part of it totally blindsided me.

You learn from your mistakes if you've half a brain. The biggest thing one gets with age is a sense of identity, which means you won't get involved with someone just to feel accepted, its better to be single than entertain a bad relationship. If someone has a history of a certain kind of behavior and has left a trail of flaming wreckage in his wake, do not assume you are special. Its better to assume you'll end up just like everyone else and have fun while it lasts.

Some women never get this far, others achieve it at 16, depending on upbringing, sense of identity, intuition, and level of independence.

Know what you want and be able to determine what its worth. Don't compromise whats important to you, and never expect someone to change. What you see is what you get.

Answer 4

like the song says some people are "lookin for love in all the wrong places" some women and men are so desperate to feel needed and loved they will put up with crap or pick someone who is not healthy for them. Some people never get out of this habit while others after one or two losers just say enough is enough, while others go through basically the same relationship over and over again just with different people for years and years before they finally break the cycle, others continue it for the rest of their lives. It basically depends on the persons self-confidence, and self-worth. Believe me you get beat down enough emotionally you find it very easy to believe that you are worthless and you cannot do any better than what you have now.

Answer 5

Every m,an is different.. Some are cheater and yet some are faithful.. and we learn how this man is by his personality, attitude, and yet by communication... Luckily, the man I met is honest and yet faithful.. He was the first man I've ever been with and I'm married to him.. I've alot of friend that been cheated and doesn't know why... Some are too lenient to the boy and yet the guy take advantage of them but they Do learn from their experience ..

Answer 6

Future

Answer 7

women generally began to mature in the twenties they have a little idea what life all about

Answer 8

depends on female i think we will never understand men