Religion is a strong block in my relationship with me and my gf ....I really can't stand the fitght between love and faith ...when I consider the strenght of my love for her, and the fact that I am feeling comfortable with the spirituality she pratices that is also a part of her she cannot deny, it is very painful ..For it to work , one of us has to accept the spirituality of the other, not forcefully, but with good sense we see it might be necessary ., if not, it's gonna be extremely painful to maintain .... but love is still there ...I don't know what to do ...I seem to take a round of yes and no in my mind ...I am ambivalent .... what do you think I shoud do other than move on ?
2006-10-08 11:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant , I am not comfortable with her spirituality , but yet I love her ..The more my love grows stronger, I see can't pretend to love her without accepting this part of her, she cannot deny ...This is a really fight between faith and love ..
2006-10-09 02:55:16 · update #1
since u love her very much u should accpt the trligion she is...dont go to some1 else but move on with it. I knoe wat u mean, this has ahppen to me.
2006-10-08 11:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong! Neither of you has to ACCEPT the spirituality or religion of the other! But you both need to RESPECT each others right to believe what you do, without interfering with that or trying to change each other.
2006-10-08 18:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about it? It may be cleared up by talking to her openly about it and being adults about it. If that is not a feasible answer, you may need to get some counseling from a qualified clergyman on that subject.
2006-10-08 18:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋