Well, i am in love with this boy, but my mind is on girls alot. I tend to act raunchy around them and stuff without knowing it, and sometimes i just give them hugs without realizing it. I go to church- im a Christian, and i was taught that being a lesbian or bi means that i will go to hell. I havent told anyone about this, but i have taken the possibility. I have never kissed a boy or a girl or had sex or anything like that with a boy or girl. <--(just adding that in for preference) i dont know... would i go to a "Hell" if there is one if i become a bi or lesbian?
I want your opinion: from the information i gave you, would you think that im bi or lesbian?
2006-10-08 11:24:36 · 14 answers · asked by Gale 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
babe, god doesn't judge, i know that much for sure, we were all created differently, therefore, we're all different. i can't tell you if your bi or a lesbian, but if you havn't kissed or slept with anyone yet, then you probably don't know either. But hon, if you think about women, i beleive its just cause your curious, you don't know what either sex is like. I am bi-sexual, but i was with men long before i ever tried anything with a women. Men are my thing, but i like to have fun with women. Good Luck Honey
2006-10-08 11:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by aswingerof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all anything is POSSIBLE.
You aren't going to hell just being you might become a bisexual person or a lesbian. A sin is a sin. You can ask forgiveness for your sins. Being bi/homosexual does not have to change your faith.
It is 100% normal to experience this in life. Boys and Girls are pronged to do it.
You could just have an extra be warm heart, and aren't affraid to express love to anyone male or female. You can be 100% straight, and still be able to find the beauty of another female.
2006-10-08 11:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think perhaps you're curious and perhaps should follow your feelings. I wouldn't worry about "going to hell"; I've never been with a woman, only men, however being in a threesome has crossed my mind which would mean kissing and other things with a woman. If you haven't been with either man or woman, then perhaps you need to experience life a little and find out if your lesbian, bi or straight.
2006-10-08 11:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by A J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety I think you're bi. There's nothing wrong with being bi. I check out lots of girls. It natural. I've even thought about having a threesome. I believe this is the way God made us. And I don't think you are going to hell. Go experiment and have fun.
2006-10-08 11:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by hott stuff!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't go to Hell for being a lesbian. It's time to grow up and leave all that religious b/s behind. People love who they love and provided they aren't being sick warped people who prey on children, then who is anyone else to judge? What 2 consenting adults do behind closed doors is nobody's business and nobody's going to hell.
2006-10-08 11:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bi-curious. I was and filled myself in. No, I do not think that you will GO TO HELL for this. Repent for your sins and ask GOD to help you make the right decision. Good luck with all that you do in your future.
2006-10-08 11:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God would love you and forgive no matter what, you do sound like you could be bi, but you never know til you try something with both sexes
2006-10-08 11:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by smash_mouth_man2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont go to hell god dosent want u to be lesbian but if u are he is not going o send you to hell for it. i dont really think your lesbien or bi because i mean its natural for girls to hug their friends i do it all the time
2006-10-08 11:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl its your choice to be bi or lesbian, or both if you want. No matter what you are still your-self girl and you should be proud.
2006-10-08 11:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does religion have to be mentioned when you think your gay oe lesbian.Are you sure you won`t go to hell.When was the last time you talk to GOD?God ment for one man and one woman. That is normal
2006-10-08 11:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋