I fancy this guy at my local store, he's the manager and ive liked him for ages. Im sure he fancies me too but, i think he may have a girlfriend, this is why i think he has never approached me or, he doesn't fancy me! Anyway ive never ever asked a guy out before as i think its the man's role but, i do want to know if he is attached so i can move on! I cant just ask him that Q cos then he will know i fancy him! Help!!!!!
2006-10-08 11:21:41 · 10 answers · asked by lucy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just go for it because to me it's a win win situation if you go and ask him if he has a girlfriend cause you sure think he's cut then it'll show confidence and that you're not afraid. If he doesn't great he'll dig your personality just because you had the confidence to go up to him. If he does have a girl then you still won't look dumb because all you have to say is that's too bad and you'll still look bravwe and not to mention hott! And let's say they break up. He'll remember that girl who talked to him and that she was just not afraid to get what she wanted. Guys love that!!!
2006-10-08 11:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make some kind of small talk and then say wow, your girlfriend must really like that! If he says yeah, then you know he's attached, if he says no I don't have a girlfriend then you are in there and says really, we should get together sometime and if he says I don't have a girlfriend I have a boyfriend, well just run!!
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-08 11:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gawd yes.
If he says no atleast it is clear.
just don't do it while he is on shift, and don't dress like a hooker when he is just getting off, and you ask him.
BUT if you really like that store and he will be there for a while, carefully consider what you like more: the chance to date him OR the chance to shop at that store without weird vibes.
2006-10-08 11:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by intracircumcordei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask out anyone you know nothing about....
If you were familiar with him or a friend was, you would know if he had a girlfriend......
2006-10-08 11:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first answer you got pretty much somes it up . Good luck !
2006-10-08 11:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by mstycain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ask him out
2006-10-08 11:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the question in an indirect way eg how r u today, hows ur family?
2006-10-08 11:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by pennines123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-08 11:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Aissata 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!!! that seems desperate...well unless u know 100% that he likes u bak dont ask him out.
2006-10-08 11:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by kungfu Kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ask a guy out! seriously!!!
2006-10-08 11:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋