this guy i liked for a long time is telling me he is going to convert. i have a feling he is doing it so that i will be with him and as a result marry him.... it jut a phase? how do i know he's serious? im not at all thinking of marriage im only 18...i dont even know if i feel enough for him anymore, what shall i do?
2006-10-08 11:05:46 · 7 answers · asked by Woah! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't convert for love. My husband refused to get baptized so that we could be married in a church. You convert because you believe and want to, not because you gain the girl from it.
2006-10-08 11:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't convert for love you convert because you believe what that religion believes. The two have nothing to do with each other. If you convert for love you are just pretending to convert and going along with the customs.
2006-10-08 11:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by goose1077 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have been you in the previous. you will get a surge from any faith if it makes you sense good and preserve. If it finally ends up hurting you, you're apologetic approximately not exploring different religions. I went by using 4 in the previous mine XD
2016-11-27 01:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by selzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wondered if the guy I was with became religious to impress me because after we broke up he wasn't anymore. It hurt because I still care deeply for him. You should ask him if it's because it's his decision or that he wants to be with you. If it's because he wants to be with you it might be hard when things fizzle.
Good luck though. This is a tough one.
2006-10-08 11:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better tell him before he converts,a good lesson for you to learn now that will help you in all relationships from this point on is communication and honesty. it sounds like you really need to define where your at and communicate that with him on and honest level
2006-10-08 11:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it a little backwards, sweetie......he is trying "convert" you into having sex. Dump the creep and move on.
2006-10-08 11:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was smart she would
2006-10-08 11:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋