how exactly would you b able 2 ask when the topic is been avoided but all u eva think bout is that person...even if you've fought in the past some how your back but as friends n he doesnt thinki of you as girl friend material
2006-10-08 10:59:17 · 9 answers · asked by kimady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let him go and just be friends if it's meant to be, he'll come to you! It's hard to know the right thing to say to someone or even how to say what you feel. It's hard because we are afraid of that special person running away from us! I was afraid of my now fiance, I had been running from him for so long that I wasn't sure if he would take me seriously. So one day I said **** this, I need to know what he thinks whether it's good or bad. So I said I think I love you and I want to be with you. well he told me he wasn't sure if putting a title on each other was a good thing but he had enough respect for me not to just leave or get involved with another woman! That wasn't exactly what i wanted but I took it and stayed true and waited for him to come around, he did and then we were engaged a month later! Men do strange things and I'm sure they think the same way about us. Be patient, don't push him but let him know how you feel!
2006-10-08 11:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk about it, just touch him. Get all close to him in his personal space. If he doesn't back away that's good. Try putting you hand on the front of his hip after a while start moving it back and forth. this is less obvious than putting it on his thigh but obvious enough to get the point across.
A Friend of mine has a child because a girl touched him in that way. This was a girl he knew for many years and had never done anything with. OH and use a condom.
2006-10-08 11:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by goose1077 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married for 11 years now and I've got this guy on my case all the time ,,i try to avoid him all the time,,he is 10 years younger than me and very fit ,,,,its my fault really i was going threw a bit of a bad patch with my husband and i went to the pub and ended up kissing this guy,,this happened 2 yrs ago and he is still on my case,,i am following my heart at the moment i think you should do the same,,,,,,,,
2006-10-08 12:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should IM her or Text her that someone wants to meet her/him . and tell her/him that the person will be waiting her in a resturant where you can get a good table kind of in s seculded area. her /him to ask the host who you have asked to await for gal/guy who will be asking for a person use a different name so she/he doesn't know. maybe have some candles and Flowers so when she/he enters the room it's only you there. hope they'd be willing to go, and get the clue that you like eachother more then friends.
but you would have to tip the host. and tell them in advance your idea and if they can accomadate.
hope that works. just the thought of it is romantic and any girl/guy would melt if they don't they aren't really a caring person.
2006-10-08 11:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feels. men generally are bad at communication (i should know!) life is too short not to know, but there is 1 thing that bothers me? why has it taken so long to get to this? is he avoiding u 4 a reason? how come he doesn,t think of u as g/f material?
2006-10-08 11:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him.Don't be scared to.And tell him how you feel about avoiding each other.Hope the best for you.
2006-10-08 11:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by teleeca r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DO realise that you're NOT sending a text message to your mate here do you? On here we try to communicate in real words. Now, what is your question please?
2006-10-08 11:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2006-10-08 11:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sum41 are great
2006-10-08 11:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lewisthelab 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋