If you don't trust him what for you are with him in first place.
2006-10-08 10:51:46
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answered by Toto 6
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I know what your looking for and no one can provide it. You want some clue in his behavior etc that will indicate he is not being faithful. No one can do that we don't know him his manners attitudes etc. It would be unfair to you and him for anyone to do so. If you think he is being unfaithful then you need to find proof but be careful if he finds out you don't trust him and has been faithful you could lose him. Its a tough spot your in but no one can really help you. Whatever gives you cause to feel he is seeing someone else you can talk to him about it. I am not suggesting you accuse him of cheating but talk to him about whatever is your reason for thinking he is cheating it. Example he isn't returning phone calls or doesn't see as much of you. If those are happening then talk to him about them! I wish you the best.
2006-10-08 10:56:04
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answered by ? 5
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if you suspect he might be,, but a freind of mine got a second job in secret and would leave after his first job worked both with no one knowing for a year,, every paycheck he made at the second job went to a jewler to buy his wife a beautiful ring for x mas the whole time he never explained where he was sneaking off to,hiss wife decided he was having an affair,, didnt trust him,, and decided to pay him back,, she slept with another guy in their bed and filmed it,, as luck would have it he presented her with his check stubs and a ring with a rock on it that could choke a horse,, he had the check stubs becuzz there was rumors about his dealing drugs,, and he was smart to keep them,,,wellllll the video which she was going to show him when she planned on dumping him was forgotten by her and their 5 yr old thought the unmarked vhs was his barney tape,,so his daddy put it in,, needless to say the ring was found by his wife hammered into a ball, 7900 dollar ring he said it was,,, the couple are still together because he knew it was his fault,, and she over reacted but he felt the ring should be destroyed because it was a reminder of a serious misunderstanding... the moral i got from their expierence,, dont be quick to jump to conclusions ,, call cheaters and have him inv estagated,, at least your fears will be put to rest
2006-10-08 11:08:38
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answered by kewl69charger 4
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You need to take note of what hes doing and where he says hes going....how late hes out, who he says hes going with, ect...
I would be very upfront about it and ask him...BUT dont accuse, bc theres a good chance your assumptions are wrong...and this will only upset him or possibly get him mad...so you need to ask him if he thinks there would be anyone else for him...ask him if he ever wants to see other people, and that if hes completely happy with you...notice and study his answers....you know your guy better than anyone else....in the end, whatever you do, make sure you take in all the information and clues, and make your final decision based on what YOUR HEART feels inside... always trust you instinct. Good luck and i hope everything works out for you...remember, either way, its better to find out the truth now, than sometime later on down the road, after wedding bells.
2006-10-08 10:56:47
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answered by Anonymous
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If you haven't figured that out yet (whether he is cheating you or not) good luck
2006-10-08 10:57:08
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answered by ~Alan~ 2
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If, you think he is ~ you probably r right ! Look for all the signs from everyone else's listings !
2006-10-08 10:57:19
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answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6
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stop calling stop visiting you and if he call only for like 5 minutes
2006-10-08 10:54:45
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answered by Jenny 2
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By the amount of satisfaction you give him
2006-10-08 10:52:53
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answered by Ateviel 3
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instant message him and pretned to be a different girl and then see if you can seduce him lol
2006-10-08 10:51:50
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answered by Zac 1
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Check his emails, outgoing and incoming calls.. oh, and follow him.
2006-10-08 10:52:11
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answered by Your Wife 3
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