Should i believe him????

Question

okay. this one day i had my boyfriends cell phone, and this girl named michelle called asking for him. I told her he wasnt there, but hed give her a call later. So then the girl called back like 2 minutes later, and asked who i was, i told her my name.then she asked me in what way was i related to the guy who owned the phone, i told her that was my boyfriend. so then she told me that he was her boyfriend too!!!! I couldnt belive it...!!! i talked to him and everything. He told me nothing ever happend between them, that she was always after him, but he never whanted anything to do w/her. So when i was hugging him i started to cry, and then he started to cry. I believed him, but i still have doubts. What do u think...should i belive it when he tells me there is nothing going on between him and that girl michelle.

Michelle's boy cousin was the one who introduced my boyfriend and me. She asked me if i knew who he was, and i told her i did. So she called him, and then she called me back and she told me that he said he didnt know me. So i call the S.O.B. and i asked him what my boyfriend and his cousin had going on, and he told me he didnt know, cuz she lived in texas. Later that evening, she called again, and i asked her where she lived, and she told me she lived in texas. Then when i was talking to my boyfriend he told me that the girl was lying. Cuz when we were bearly going out he had told me about his friends cousin who wat trying to get w/. but he didnt want to get w/her. So when she called the first time, she thought i was his sister answering the phone. When she called the second time, she found out i was going out w/him. so i think she was just lying about the whole thing, cuz shes coming back from texas in a week or so, and she just wanted to brake us up????

Answer 1

You never mentioned you age or age group ,,,,,I wish people would remember to do that ,,,,,, It would be easier to answer questions like this if that were known ,,,, so I would put you at something like your middle or late teens or early 20's at the most ,,,,, The top and bottom line and most damaging evidence at hand is that she has his phone number at all so how did she get it ,,,,,I know that no one except the cell phone provider I use knows my number ,,,, along with only those that I have given my number too,,,,,,, So it's entirely possible that someone else could have given it to her ,,,,,, But then again you have to ask yourself why would THEY do that ,,,,,,,, In your explanation of all these back and forth conversations you've had with him and her and and anyone else ,,,, you mentioned that he broke down and cried ,,,,,,,, Well ,,,,,,, believe me ,,,,, guys ,,, or boys,,,,,, are just as good an actor as girls can be ,,,,,,Some or most guys ,,, especially young ones or even guys as old as 30 or more ,,,,, aren't mature enough to know what the phrase "Lasting Commitment " is or means ,,,,,,, That's a major reason why there are allot of young divorced people and broken families in this country now ,,,,, The couple will make a committtment to each other and eventually learn that they were not in love but in lust ,,,,,But usually by the time they come to this realization ,,, It's one or two or more children too late ,,,,,, Don't let this guy play you for a fool ,,,, You don't need this crap ,,,,, There is a saying that goes,,, "Fool me once ,,, shame on you ,,,, but fool me twice ,,,, shame on me" At this stage of your life you are too young to make commitments of a lasting nature and he certainly is too ,,,,,, There are allot of other fish in the pond ,,,,, Don't saddle yourself with just one boy or guy this early in your life ,,,,,, Play the field so to speak ,,,,, Meet as broad a range of different guys as you can ,,,, Doing this will enable you to make a better and more informed decission about just who you want to settle down with and make that final commitment with ,,,,,, It's more than likely that the girl on the cell phone needs to do this too ,,,,,, I don't know how you'll rate this answer but reguardless of that I strongly advise you to consider what I've told you ,,,,, It can't hurt and just may save you alot of trouble and upset ,,,,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,,, have fun and take care ,,,,,,,

Answer 2

Well, it sounds like the three answers before mine might be right on. How did she get his number anyway. Did you think to look at his outgoing call history and see if he is calling her? I'd try and get the phone back somehow and check on how many times and when she's called, and if he has been calling her. If he's calling her, then I'd tell him to take a hike straight to Michelle!

Answer 3

How old are you? Because your next question is going to be If we still believe in ferry tales... Come on what is wrong with you? You know that he is cheating on you and you just cought him off guard... Why don't you give the other girlfriend a call and found out. The truth hurts sometimes... EFIL

Answer 4

if the girl sounded sincerely upset, id say he was playing both of you. if he doesnt want anything to do with her, why does she have his phone number? oh! and was her name programmed in there? if she called and it came up as "michelle" then obviously shes called before. try to somehow talk to michelle and get her side of the story.

Answer 5

why would she have his number unless he in fact gave it to her. and why would she get the guts up to call a guy that already has a girlfriend unless he was hiding you from her. sounds suspicious, he may not be doing anything physical with her, but i'd stay aware of his actions and where abouts for some time.

Answer 6

Normally id say that a bit of trust has got to be involved ie give and take. My gut feeling in this case however is "no smoke without fire" - im sorry.

Answer 7

I can describe this guy in one word: PLAYER!!! Dump him. Immediately. If he's cheating on you, he's not worth your time. Besides, what reason would SHE have for telling you that she was his girlfriend too? He is lying. However, he seems to be a good actor.

Answer 8

He's lying to 3 people: you, Michelle and himself. Maybe more- who knows?

Answer 9

Been there,done that.. I would ask him How did she get his cell phone #??? They are not published in the regular phone books. And one ? you should ask yourself, why did he cry. Most boys/men do not cry unless they know they are guilty. I would not let your guard down. If I were in your shoes, i would ask those ?'s.. then kick him to the curb.

Answer 10

believe him if u love him.if not then wait for sometime to gather more such instances to satisfy urself.dont be hasty in giving away (maybe) a good boyfriend. SPY HIM A LITTLE.