I have never had a bf. Alot of my friends have someone special, i am starting to feel alone. How did you handle it, if you went through this problem?
2006-10-08 10:36:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, a lot of your friends also get jealous that you are still single. You are young. You can do so much more when you are not attached to someone. Think of it as a gift. When you get to the age that you think you can settle down, then maybe you should start looking around for the potential mate.
2006-10-08 10:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I went through that horrible emptiness period for a long, long time. A few months ago I stopped wanting a boyfriend, and lo and behold--a guy walks into my life. Seriously-every girl I have talked to about this says that when she didn't want a guy he showed up! You just have to get to that point. How? It's hard, but just turn off all guy feelings.
2006-10-08 17:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sunnydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey honey don't feel bad. :)
Some of us who have lived a little, know that you can be with someone and still feel alone. It's a lot worse than just being alone.
Wait for the right person, not just any person.
2006-10-08 17:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
i didn't get a boyfriend until i was 14. it seemed like everyone started getting bf's 3 years earlier.
trust me, somebody will find you. in the meantime look to God. i know it will be hard but just stick through it and support your friends when they're having boyfriend problems and going through break-ups. that's something you'll be saved from - drama and boyfriend problems.
2006-10-08 17:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta love yourself before you can love another. If you can't stand to be alone or unable to entertain yourself when alone, how can you do the same for another?
Sometimes being alone is good, makes us stronger as a person, more independant, etc. Plus it allows you to get to know the real you.
2006-10-08 17:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just held my head high and continue to like myself for who I am I can relate it seems when your alone you see everyone in love and it does hurt but it will get better and before you know it you'll have a special someone too !!
2006-10-08 17:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand wat u mean i was the same way until like 2 years ago.... im 15 and i thought i was left out but the thing is that u have to start talkin to more and more guys and flirt let them no ur interested but dont me a total whore lol... but juss give it a try and it will turn out good.
2006-10-08 17:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sweat the small stuff. Be happy with your alone time. After you start dating, you will WANT IT BACK!
2006-10-08 17:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by DrSavage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 11?
2006-10-08 17:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sheldon+shell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some reason when we're single we feel hopeless, but it won't last your time will come. There is plenty of time for dating.
2006-10-08 17:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋