really like this guy. he is amzing, cute, sweet, caring but I am afraid to tell him how I feel about him because I have told him a couple of times that he wasn't my type and now that he is my type I am not sure what he will say. I mean he is so sweet and talk to me a lot. my sister hates him, she thinks that he is mean and that I will wind up with my heart broken again. I want a relationship with him but he is a punkish guy and I am a preppy girl. I mean I would do anything to be with him. What should i do? Please help.Thanks in advance. My sister and I were talking about it and he wanted to know what we were talking aobut. Should I tell him that we were talking aobut him.
2006-10-08 10:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you just thought he wasn't your type because he is punk and that's not your usual type. Now that you know him better, you feel like he's what you've been looking for. If your sister knows something about his character that proves that he treats people poorly, then you'll just be another girl falling for the bad boy type. If she thinks hes mean because of how he looks and you disagree, then disregard her opinion. Punk, preppie combos usually are more about exploring the other side...but you might just be a little punker girl and not know it yet cuz you don't know much about the music and the philosophy. Sounds like you WANT to know! I say this...if you can go out in public with him and be proud and not worry about what "others will think" then you are mature enough to cross over to the other side and have a relationship. If you will be having a relationship where you love being alone with him but are ashamed of who he is, don't bother to start a relationship with him, because you'll just end up making him hate you. At least you are friends...and you always will be unless treat him like he's an experiment. Go for it if you really want everyone to know how you feel about him. If you don't want your friends to know, please don't start anything more than what you now have.
2006-10-08 10:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by MicksGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him you should go for it but if he is punkish and you are preppy you may not have anithing in commond. But still go for it and he is not what you think well leave him because you heart might get broken. Just try to know him but dont get blinded by your emotions.
2006-10-08 17:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow of the Sand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think you should know that most men don't like women who are desperate and needy. Get some self esteem, some self confidence. Tell him you like him and see where it goes. Love offers no guarantees.
2006-10-08 17:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him before u curse urself throughout ur life and love is not bound by the way people r, but be sure its love and not infatuation.as far as his attitude is concerned u can change him only by bieng with him."best of luck".
2006-10-08 17:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Just tell him what you fell. Good Luck and Gos Bless EFIL
2006-10-08 17:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you would give up anything for this guy, that means you really like him. I wish you the best of luck. : ]
2006-10-08 17:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your sister. Get rid of him
2006-10-08 17:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be honest
2006-10-08 17:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put out
2006-10-08 17:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by papaofgirlmegan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think he should know how you feel :)
2006-10-08 17:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by jared p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋