My girlfriend and I live in Iowa. We live across town from eachother and the only way I can see her is at Church, At a Teen Hangout called Common Grounds, And After School. We talk on the phone maybe 1 hour a week. Is my relationship going to hell? and should I dump her and go for another girl?
2006-10-08 10:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by jordan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because you can't see her barely, in a true relationship, you can wait to see each other and make the most of it when you can spend time together
2006-10-08 10:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by smash_mouth_man2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find or think of creative things to do like take her to on a romantic picnic or surprise her if your really into her if your not that into her then you'll know what is right to do. Just consider the fact that you either care about her or not. I'm sure that your really young, so don't rush into things. Your relationship is not going to hell, you guys just need to talk about what is best for the both of you, sometimes you meet people in your life that your meant to be with and then you learn and grow from each relationship. It takes time all you have to do is take time to figure out what is best for the both of you. Just be honest really.
2006-10-08 10:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Swimming cutie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell is a similar by way of fact the darkish one.If some one has a depressing place there character would be undesirable.Relationships go through reason for it.Christians frequently prefer to 'witness' climate in a chum,or bf/gf courting so it does not be un favourite to take heed to it.yet hopefully not hammering it into you.there is generic acquaintances and there are undesirable human beings.If some one is unbearably mean and nasty,no.
2016-11-27 01:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by ferree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell are you soo negative! why does it have to be either going to hell or dumping her?! just for that she should dump you! just because you dont get to see her very often, and dont talk on the phone too much doesnt mean anything bad. the less you see each other the happier you should be when you do see each other. i no that im always realy happy when i get to hang out with my bf afterschool when i havent gotten to do that in a while. i dont want to do anything but to hold and be held close.
2006-10-08 10:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by my horse is a helmet breaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what kind of relationship you are looking for. If your looking for sex then you should probably look elsewhere it doesn't sound like that will happen. Why can you only see her at these places, is it her parents? If she doesn't want to go anywhere else with you then your relationship is probably over. You know better then we do where your relationship is headed. Ask yourself "is it over?" and go with the first answer the comes to mind. Good luck!!
2006-10-08 10:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ummm what is so wrong with this relationship that you think it's going to hell? Obviously you're very young and have no clue as to male/female relationships. I suggest you stick with being just friends with girls for now and not get into any committed relationships because obviously you can't handle them as yet.
2006-10-08 10:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not dump her; because of the fact your not always together. Also if you get another girlfriend you might have the same problem with that one. You should make time with her it is always up to the boyfriend to find quality time for the relationship. ;-)
2006-10-08 10:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why that's all you see her. Are you very young and not allowed to date? Do you have a car to use? Maybe not seeing each other very much is a good thing--more time to spend on homework and hanging out with friends.
2006-10-08 10:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much this girl means to you. If you care enough for her It shouldn't matter where you see her as long as
you can see her. It sounds like her parents might be a little strict.
You just have to decide for your self if she is worth it . Good luck
to you.
2006-10-08 10:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by REALISTIC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like a very promising relationship..
2006-10-08 10:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋