Girls, how would u break the news to ur boyfriend that ur pregnant if u werent sure how he wud react??

Question

I'm happy about it but im worried he'll be upset...any advice?

Answer 1

i am going to tell you something and that's i have been with my husband for 11 years and in that 11 years we have split up once and that was because i got pregnant for our second child and he was honest about it and said he had a hard enough time raising one and could not at this time handle a another so we split up for 1 year and 3 mos. yes i was devastated but at lest he was honest about it well when our baby girl was one we got back to gather and then i got pregnant with our third yes i did try to prevent this i was on the every 3 mos shot but still ended up pregnant and i was scared that he would live again but i had to tell him so what i did is waited for our two kids to go to bed then i gave him the pregnancy test and when he figured out what it was he told me that he helped make this baby and i don't have to worrier he will be here to help take care of it as well witch for me was a big relief and you know every thing turned out OK . my youngest is soon to be three now and life is just as good now as it was then. what i am trying to say is no mater how scared you are you just give him the pregnancy test and wait for the reaction and go from there hope this helps

Answer 2

I'd tell him that I have always pictured him as a little child, and that I wish I could have been there to see him grow up and enjoy how cute he must have been.

And then tell him I think he would make a wonderful Daddy, and describe the things about him that would be good for fatherhood (not all men are the same, you will have to think of something about him that would be good in a father).

Then tell him that you are very happy because you think you might be pregnant. Maybe leave it at that, just to see the reaction you get. Give it another day or so, and let him get used to the idea of a "maybe"... just like you did.

Then, next time he sees you, he will ask you, probably, if you are pregnant. Then you can tell him for sure. By that time, you will pretty much know what his reaction will be.

By the way... it would have been better if you had been able to prevent this until you could have been more sure of what his reaction would be. He might be angry just because he was given no control or decision over this situation. If so... you will just have to deal with that, and give him more time to get used to the idea.

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Answer 3

Well, first you have to think about how you feel about him. Is this guy the person you want to have around permanently? Is he going to be good enough for your little baby?

If you decide he's good enough for the baby and that you want him around, then you just need to tell him straight up. Something along the lines of, "When you play grown-up games, you end up with grown-up consequences. We haven't been the most careful, and guess what? I'm pregnant. What are we going to do about it?"

If he's as good as you thought, he should be able to cope. After all, he's old enough to know what happens when two viable people starting doing the nasty without protection.

GOOD LUCK! And get yourself in for a prenatal checkup!

Answer 4

Well, If you and your boyfriend are young and still in highschool like me, then you should really take the time to think before you speak. I was pregnant not so long ago but had a miscarriage. I told my boyfriend over the phone, and he was scared out his mind. I tried to explain to him everything would be ok, but he says he didn't hear anything I was saying. Even though he though our lives were ruined, he stood by me, and we made it. When I first found out I didn't tell him though. It is better for you to have someone by your side for emotional support and besides, it is his child too. He should know. Just sit him down and tell him, face to face, not over the phone. Good Luck!

Answer 5

If you go into a sexual relationship, you should trust your partner. Tell him straight out, its not good stress over whether or not he will accept the baby. Worry about taking care of the baby, and being the best mother you can be. He needs to be responsible, and stand by you.
Take care and congrats!!

Answer 6

theres no such thing as being afraid of telling him because this is something u two should have been discussed not the actual situation but the possibilities are always there when u have sex.

go to him and tell him that u are and how he reacts is his business if he is real on his part he'll stick it out not stick u but be there
ANGER OR BEING UPSET SHOULD NOT EVEN BE ON HIS MIND

GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Answer 7

Last thing you have to do now is be worried, instead be happy!! You're bringing a beautiful child into this world. I'm hoping your boyfriend isn't too dumb to understand that sex without a condom can lead to a child. He HAS to take responsibility...PERIOD! After you speak with him, speak with his family. At this moment though, don't be worried, be happy!! Good luck!

Answer 8

Just say, " So and so, remember when we were real stupid and had sex , well guess what Daddy?" I only say it like this thinking you are younger than 19 0r 20.............I hope it works out,,,,But If I were a guy I would be mad if I thought you were on birth control and you weren't ........At the same time, it does take two....

Answer 9

He spread the seed, now he has to take the heat.

YES! Tell him. Just don't act like it is a sad thing, be happy about it and hopefully he will embrace you. If not, he doesnt deserve to be raising your child.

Answer 10

This topic should have been talked about before you all ever started screwing. Just tell him now, if he wants to stay he will, if not, you can always abort.