I met a girl off Yahoo messenger, and we Im 'ed each other for a while, We exchanged phone numbers and started talking on the phone. We talk everyday now, and sometimes the phone calls last 3 to 4 hours.
Last night I talked to this girl, and she kinda seemed like she was looseing interest in me. She did not talk as long as she usually does and did not make plans to call me today like we usually do with each other.
I feel like I am getting too close to her too fast, So I was wondering if I should call her today or give her space, Will that just make her want me more?
I can tell that she likes me alot and we allready have plans to go out next month.
I do not want to screw it up by calling her too much, or not calling her enough, What should I do, Should I call her?
2006-10-08 10:17:26 · 16 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think that if the girl really likes you it won't matter if you do call her, it won't put her off, (it might be that she is busy or something and cant be bothered with a call, but she won't go off you because of it!). Likewise if you don't call and she really likes you, she will probably call you instead! I don't think whichever way you go, it will afftect how she feels.
I know it wouldn't change my mind, my husband bugged me constantly with calls when we were "going out", but it didn't make me like him less!
2006-10-08 10:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by eckisix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely know the answer to your question!!
You had better call today and ask her out on an official date to take place VERY soon!! Not a month away! Geez. What does that say? I'm not too eager to meet you.
You two are spending WAY too much time talking and the relationship will end up in the friend zone.
No wonder she is losing interest!!
2006-10-08 17:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her today. Wait a couple of days. What seems to happen when I get interested in a guy, I talk to him more than I normally would, and he seems interested, then after a while he seems less interested in me. So then I stop talking to him for a while and that makes him re-interested again.
-Sorry that was confusing...In short,...
She's getting a little bored right now. Make her miss you by giving her some space.
Now there's some reverse-psychology for ya.
2006-10-08 17:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by katherinejean66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok a girl always likes to hear form the guy that she likes. you should call her even if it is just to say hi. and maby just ask her how was her day, and if it doesnt seem like she has much more to say, just tell bye and youll talk to he later. instead of trying to talk for 3-4 hours a day dont talk too much for a coulple days maby so then you wont be struggling to find something to talk about when you do talk.so maby for a day or two now just call her to say hi, i know that i like it when my guy does that. it putts me in a good mood. good luck.
2006-10-08 17:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by my horse is a helmet breaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her today. What you should do is wait for her to come online tomoro and start by saying something like 'hey stranger'. don't bug her the minute she comes online and act as if u havn't been waiting for her. talk as if YOU'RE uninterested and try to be funny. do this by leaving time before u anser and use short statements ocasionally. and depending on how responsive she is, ask her out....this advice is pure gold , gd luk
2006-10-08 18:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by PrinZuko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like somebody to call you every day like crazy and talk , talk, talk like obsessed person. Maybe you are lonely and got too much excitement. Cool down, slow down - why you so in a harry.
2006-10-08 17:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait a while and them call her and maybe ask heer if anythings wrong.
She might just need some time or something might have haappened, you wont know until you ask thats for sure...
Just let her chill and dont call her today, maybe tomorow
2006-10-08 17:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by simbainkempner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her some time so you don't seem needy or desperate and then you can call her and ask her how things are going
2006-10-08 17:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a day, and call her tomorrow just to see how she is doing, That should suffice for now.
2006-10-08 17:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space and call her tomorrow. It may not have anything to do with you, she may have been upset about something else...
2006-10-08 17:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by jamie-blacksher@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋