when i was 15 years i had sex with my boyfriend at that time we went to temple n marry each other nobody till now know about our marriage. we both were not living together he lived with his family n i with my family.i m indian girl. n now i m 20 years old.i lost my virginity n i had an abortion too. my boyfriend died last year in road accident.he is in me till now n i cnt forget him until my death. i have some problem actually my family dont know about our relationship about abortion nothing. my life was complete secret. few days before i got marriage proposal i said straight no to my mom n said i dnt want to marry.now my mom is doing emotional blackmail to me if i wont say yes she will eat poison n die. i also love my mom a lot. at end for my family i get ready. today i got engaged means my ring ceremony with the person whom i dnt love.plz tell me one day when he will touch me will he come to know that i had sex before or about abortion. plz tell me what should i do
2006-10-08 10:16:41 · 11 answers · asked by jaanvi g 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If the man knows what he is doing, he will be able to tell that you are not a virgin. He will not be able to tell that you have had an abortion, unless something medically comes up later like a complication.
Talk to your mother. I understand not being able to talk to your parents and let them in on your life but in order to get any cooperation out of them, they need to know how you feel. Her threat to kill herself is an empty one. Explain to her that you do not love this man and don't want to marry him. You are 20 years old and legally she cannot force you to do something you don't want to do. She can, however, make you very unhappy if you don't do what she says. Try to reason with her and if she still doesn't understand, it might be best for you to move on and go have your own life somewhere else.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-08 10:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kristi's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi jaanvi... I would suggest that you tell your fiance about what happened because you're starting a new relationship so you need to be honest. You are just engaged, not married... If your fiance still accepts you, you're a lucky girl... Otherwise, you can break off your engagement... BUT one thing you shouldn't do is keep all this inside of you! There should be someone you can talk to!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-08 15:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Iram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi jaanvi this is not abig problem 4 me i already handled it very well round about 3 of my x girl friends had same problem.but i have the ayurvedic medicine .not too much costly its kind of free .u have to use this medicine regular 3 weeks before marrige this is not eatble medicine it is like bandage.like whisper .if this medicine will use 50 years old lady .her vagaina looks like 18 year old girl .would u plz tell me by question .if u r intrested.i can mail or courier 4 u . thanks
2006-10-08 10:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 12:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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don't worry abt past. past is past now is present and future.you cannot ruin ur life by remembering ur boy frend.
just forget him and marry ur present fiancee. don't wory abt ur virginity. people do these type of mistakes before marriage also forget it.
2006-10-09 05:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should atleast tell ur financee abt this, You have no right of spoiling his life.
2006-10-08 21:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii janavi ....this is very normal.Many of them loose virginity before marriage so dont worry ....let things go as it is.
2006-10-09 22:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by preeti p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u jus call ur fiance up n tell him da truth]
2006-10-08 10:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him that you had a sex.but goand tell him that you cant sex.
2006-10-09 07:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by A good boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and get married ,he wont come to know of ur past sexual position
2006-10-10 08:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by doctor asho 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋