K I love the fact me and my gf can spend the night together it's awesome but all my friends say it isn't normal she's the first gf I've ever actually wanted to be around 24/7. Is this weird? I mean I still want it to happen just wondering what u think, but I really like it u know waking up to my gf gives me a reason to look forward to tomorrow and now her Mom is thinking about letting her move in with me when I turn 18 is this normal? Just wanna know what u think.
2006-10-08 10:07:26 · 27 answers · asked by nothingforthebest666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awesome I wanna have 5 babies with her. And I asked if Brittany (my gf) could move in when I turned 18 and she said yes. Her Mom is 29, married and has a 1 year old kid. And no Britt is not a s**t. I'm her first serious bf that she spent the night with.Britt isn't a sicko.
2006-10-08 10:20:44 · update #1
I do look out for Brittany and Brittany could do whatever she wanted but chooses not to. And no when u sleep with someone (not usually sex just hugging and kissing) and wakeup and see them in your arms you realiza this worlds can be such a wonderful place I love her and I'm not sure any of u guys remember what it's like ot bein love truelly in love and my parents don't care at all. I love her she loves me and eventually when we get old enough we're gonna get married.
2006-10-08 10:30:33 · update #2
dude of course in the same room
2006-10-08 11:54:48 · update #3
No, not normal, and probably not a good idea either. I mean I've heard of parents letting boyfriends spend the night where the girlfriend is asleep in her bed and the boyfriend is downstairs somewhere on the couch, but not like in the same room and never at this age. You DO sleep in a different room, right? Also remember when you are 18 (legal) she will only be 16 (not legal) so if anyone complains about you two living together the question of statutory rape can come up. Be careful and if you love her, true love waits. Give yourself and her time to grow up, if it's meant to be the love will still be there when you two are older and really ready to play house.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-08 10:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal I don't know, but I do think that it ISN'T healthy! I appreciate that you enjoy being with her and the happiness that she brings you, but with that you two are very young. At 13 and 15 you two are just to young to be sexually active, in my humble opinion. And, her mother should know that and parent accordingly. If you do truely love your gf you should treat her well and give your relationship the respect it deserves. Hence, if her mom lets you sleep over you need to be responsible and make good decisions. If that means you're not comfortable sleeping over, or sleep in another room, or sleep over but just cuddle with your gf and abstain from sex, or if you BOTH decide that you are ready to have sex together then use condoms and think about her starting birth control also. It really sounds like her mom is rushing your relationship knowing how old you both are. You two should decide what you are okay with and go with that. Don't be pressured to do anything else. Good luck.
2016-03-28 01:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your parents in this? You are playing with fire. The closeness will consume you and you will eventually make her pregnant. Are you ready to support her and the child? Stay away from this situation and go home. Tell your parents and ask them to help you become a kid again. You have only just begun to come of age and you should not compromise your future for a great girl today. Tell her you care about her, but you do not want to act like an adult until you are an adult. Moral behavior will take you a long way in life. Wake up honey and walk away from this.
2006-10-08 10:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by AggieMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the Mother doesn't know how to be a parent. The next thing you know, old mom will be trying to crawl between the sheets with you if the daughter has some place to be.
She is also raising a "slut" I don't mean it in a bad way, but that's what she's doing to her daughter. She has no respect for her daughter to be allowing this.
Mom is sick, and I really don't think you should let your self be so involved iwth a "sicko" family. Love or not!!
2006-10-08 10:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no this is not normal. don't you think that you two are too young to have this type of relationship where you get to spend the night with each other. whatever happened to going to the movies or the mall with each other. what do your parents think about this. a grown up needs to be in this picture with some sense. i understand you are both in deep like but this puts the relationship at a level that two young people cannot even comprehend at this point in your lives. you need to talk to an adult that you trust other than that girl's mom because she don't know where her head is at this point in time. be careful sweetie as things can happen that you are not prepared for. playing house is fun until you have to suffer the consequences.
2006-10-08 10:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, totally not normal. My parents had a fit when i was 17, and not living at home, and come home for the holidays, and i brought my fiancee with me. They would not let us sleep in the same room! Or even cuddle on the couch! It was retarded! I'm not almost 24, and my folks are divorced. And I still have a hard time bringing a guy home to my mom!
2006-10-08 10:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its unusual....either she is very trusting of you and/or her daughter or she is just very liberal. either way, you just have to think to yourself what the purpose would be of you spending the night with her...remember, it wouldnt be legal for you guys to have sex....unless it's that you just want to spend alot of time with her?! if so, you could do that during the day right?! you're both young, if you rush into a heavy relationship now then what have you got to look forward to in the future? take it slow and enjoy the stage that you're at now.
i also think you need to be a bit concerned about the effect of the mom's attitude on your girlfriend. i mean if she is so liberal (or naive enough to be so trusting) then what other stuff is she happy to let her daughter do? as the boyfriend you should be looking out for her. stay safe!
2006-10-08 10:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by sky_blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mom is not setting boundaries to protect her daughter. Watch out she could get pregnant and then what would 24/7 be like? Get yourself a job and get involved with other activities besides a 13 year old.
2006-10-08 10:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by nancy e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This crap isn't normal at all. She is definitely a CLUELESS parent. I'm 25 and could never have a guy spend a night a my mom's house. Totally disrespectful.
2006-10-08 10:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by sunshyne1519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal I dont know anybodies parents that will let someone spend the night at that age she probably is not a good mother
2006-10-08 10:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋