Can you beat this and why are we like that?
2006-10-08 09:48:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why. I 'm not unattractive, think Angelina Jolie with a few extra pounds and a few inches shorter, but no one ever asks me out. i'm just trying to get some feed back on others in same situation.
2006-10-08 10:52:21 · update #1
Just........1990, i changed career after that and have travelled all over the country, i have not looked back.................
2006-10-08 09:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I can't beat 15 years but any woman can get a man, it's about choice and selectivity and obviously nobody has come into your life that you have liked. It is a problem meeting men if you don't frequent clubs etc but the last two boyfriends I met weren't in social circumstances..so fate seems to play a hand sometimes. You don't say whether you are unhappy about it???
2006-10-08 10:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you want people to beat that- is it a goal? As to why - sometimes it just seems to be fated that way. My problem is that I always seem to get married men after me - and because I don't want to be a homebreaker or slapper it doesn't seem to leave me with much of an option. I have plenty of male friends, but they seem to treat me as an honorary lad, and ask advice about how to get together with girls that they like because I'm 'a girl and understand'. I am generally told that I am pretty, clever, etc etc - so I don't know why life is like it is - it's frustrating though. What are your reasons?
2006-10-08 09:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/Qlwgj
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-27 13:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ive been single just over a year ive not even had sex in that time,sometimes i think life moves on so fast that before you realise the years have just flown by.Have you been asked out? do you go out sociallising.With me i have no friends so i never go out,ive been asked out by a stranger in the supermarket but i just thought what a weirdo and said no.Do you want a boyfriend?if you do try a dating agency.
2006-10-08 09:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don´t feel a strong need for one.
It takes a fair amount of effort and flexibility to find and maintain a partner: you´ve probably got better things to do with your time.
2006-10-08 09:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought of the possibility that you are a lesbian? And if you aren't, ask friends to hook you up. If that seems pathetic, go to an online dating website. Or just approach random guys at bars and crap. Live it up alittle women!
2006-10-08 09:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by mcrXp!atdXtbsXfobXaddicted2music 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've NEVER had a boyfriend! But then I'm a bloke and I'm not gay.
Why are you so proud of the 15 years, with the "can you beat this" attitude. When you've got to 30 years maybe you'll realise that all you've achieved is loneliness and bitterness.
2006-10-08 09:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mark S_UK 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It is not that unusual for a person to examine their life and realize, they haven't been dating. This usually happens to persons that come from strong family backgrounds. We have to be careful what we take home. We aren't necessariliy picky for ourselves, but we are looking for someone that our family members, church members or friends will approve of. I don't know if this applies to you.
2006-10-08 10:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ravishing Rick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for a boyfriend why not start with another Harry Potter fan like myself names peltris@yahoo.co.uk
I'm not mr perfect. If anything I'm mostly daft.
But like yourself i'm lonely and in need of someone to chat to.
So if you want to just chat IM me.:-)
2006-10-08 09:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are choosy which is a good thing.And we probably dont get out much to meet anyone interesting.
2006-10-08 09:53:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋