my ex-girlfriend broke up with me because she was forced 2 do it(i'd rather not disclose the reason but the reason was not because their was a problem with the relationship) and she still chats 2 me and talks 2 me like she still loves me and she sometimes tries 2 hint that she would like 2 date me in the future.....what does this mean and why does she do it?
2006-10-08 09:42:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am assuming that she was maybe forced to split from you by her family? It sounds very much like she still likes you a lot and didn't want to end the relationship. I think she's hinting about your future as she wants to be with you but knows that she can't right now .....because maybe of other people that are involved (i'e the person / reason she was forced to split from you?).
...............If you like her wait, if she loves you she'll come back - no matter what!
2006-10-08 10:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must know that if she was forced to break up with you for reasons that were not directly related to the relationship then she probably still loves you, wishes she could be with you and is clinging to the past. You don't say how you feel about her, or if the problems have gone away - if they have she may well be wishing she had the courage to ask you to get back together again, or hoping that if she hints that you will suggest it. If you are no longer inerested in her, and the relationship cannot be stated again then you should try to distance yourself or be straight with her because you are both being held back when you need to move on.
2006-10-08 09:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is that all women are evil.
But no-one is forced to break up with anyone. If your family disapproves or puts pressure on you then you are more likely to stay together in an act of defiance. And if it was some small little thing that has risen between you two, then she isn't worth it as if you love someone enough, you can talk through anything and sort it out. This sadly isn't the case here, and you should consider moving on.
2006-10-08 18:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Aquaduck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still has a thing for you, if as you say the reason was nothing to do with the relationship but other influences then she probably still wants to have a relationship with you. You have to ask her if you can if she still interested and want to start again, but does the reason you broke up still have influences over you and her if it does then how can you date again if you know that you will end up heartbroken again just like the first time. Its completely your decision but its a case of either throw caution to the wind and try again or play it cautious and remember the relationship you had without retreading old ground. Sorry but its your call but good luck.
2006-10-08 09:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one forced your girlfriend to do anything. If there was no gun to her head the decision was in her hands. Well if she still flirts with you talk to her about it and find out the truth of the matter and whats really going on.
2006-10-08 09:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still WANTS you, but doesn't love you enough or have enough integrity to stand by you if the going gets slight less than convenient.
She's only thinking about herself, not you, because if she spared half a thought for you, she wouldn't put you through this torment.
Or perhaps she's deliberatley tormenting you for the hell of it.
2006-10-08 09:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mark S_UK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious to me that she didn't want to break up with you in the first place. She's just trying to hold on to what you two had in the past. If it's bothering you tell her to leave you alone.
2006-10-08 09:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by yblur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Force to do what cook. If it's the other thing, I'm calling the cops
2006-10-08 09:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by 504Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants the best of both worlds. She's checking up on you. Tell her to get lost. If she calls again hang up.
2006-10-08 09:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz she still loves u and the only reason why u guys probably broke was for what ever reason that waz
2006-10-08 09:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Peyton J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋