How should i go about this?

Question

This girl is my friend right. And her best friend is trying to hook me up with her. She's shy and i am also. Her best friend told me she liked me. She's been trying to hook her up with someone for months. I never even knew she kind liked me since she told me i was cute and she would have to get to know me better first. She never seems like she likes me much from body lang and stuff. Since i do want be with her, what should i do.

Answer 1

hang out with her not on a dating level you two will probably be a nervous wreck since youre both shy. but just hang out with her on a friend level and that way you two can break down the shy wall once you get comfortable with being around each other it makes things a little easier you can also start by phone conversations you will be surprise at what you can say over the phone vs in person

Answer 2

Ahhhh... if the two of you feel the same way about each other then it shouldn't be difficult. Why don't you try asking out the girl yourself instead of having the friend do all the communicating. While in a casual setting just ask the girl if she would like to join you for dinner or lunch... or if there's something the two of you have in common, use that as a way to strike up a conversation, then exchange phone #'s and take it from there.

Answer 3

i would start with something like asking her if she wants to meet you for coffee (something simple that isnt really viewed as a date). then if things go well there, at the end of the coffee you could say you had a great time and would like to take her to dinner sometime..

or if you are really that shy about it then you could always just ask her best friend to set up the first date.

Answer 4

You can't always know by the so-called "signs" body language etc. Time is wasting....you should be brave and ask her out. That simple. Shy is no excuse for a guy if you really want to be with her. Good luck.