he's really cute and hot
2006-10-08 09:32:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If you want to die, give him all the chances you can.
2006-10-08 09:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL YOU HAVE GOT TO BE JOKING!!
Do you really think you should be a punching bag because someone is cute and hot. Any man who hits a woman has emotional and/or anger management issues he is not capable of dealing with and these men do not change.
The first time a man hits you is the time to get your things together and leave. Do not be fooled by the BS when the man says he lost control and will never do it again,,,It will happen again! and again!
Abuse is about power and control and the longer you allow it to continue the more difficult it is going to be to end it.
You probably think you are going to be able to change this guy so all I can say is,,,,,,,see you at the women's shelter some time!
NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS!
THE ONE WHO IS WOULD NEVER MAKE YOU CRY!
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2006-10-08 12:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by whajagonado 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will hit you again. Why would you want to give him another chance? I don't care how "cute" and "hot" he is, he is of a mindset that says to hit you. If you don't mind being beaten up all the time then fine, give him another chance (to hit you). Now he knows all he has to do after he hits you again is promise not to hit you again and he will get another chance (to hit you again).
Why do you want to put up with this? I get smacked around all the time and I can tell you it's not pretty. Look at me. Do you want to end up like me?
2006-10-08 09:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to talk the talk, he'd better walk the walk.
If he's serious about this promise, he'll make some other changes in his life. If nothing seems to be different, get out and get out fast.
If he seems to show some serious signs of changing, like he has started meeting with a psychologist, for example, you might be more interested in sticking with him.
But you shouldn't live together unless you're married.
And I'd recommend that you choose your future partner on some more substantial criteria than just "cute and hot".
2006-10-09 09:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. If he does it once, he'll do it again. UNLESS he agrees to go to counseling and anger management. Your sentence "He's really cute and hot" is inane; what does it matter how he looks if he hits you? You want to be a punching bag for the rest of your life because he's cute?
p.s. YOU won't look so cute and hot with that black eye and broken arm.
2006-10-08 09:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He will most likely hit you again and apologize later. Get out of this relationship! He maybe cute and hot, but he's a bully. Abusing you is against the law. Don't tolerate abusive people.
Contact your local domestic violence shelter (Battered Women's Shelter). They will give a lot of help and support.
2006-10-08 11:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Malika 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not deserve to be hit. The best thing that you could do for yourself would be to call a domestic violence hotline and talk to them personally about the situation. It's really cool. You get some one-on-one conversation with someone who knows all about boys hitting girls - men hitting women.
It's a high to walk around with a hot guy. But when everyone knows he beats on women, it gets to be a low real fast.
Good luck. You deserve a healthy relationship with a guy who respects you and knows how to treat you. Go for it, girl!
2006-10-08 10:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Klem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a abuser always a abuser. if you accept him back he will hit you again and again...your accepting him back tells him that you will forgive him, true it might not happen for awhile but in the long run, when he gets mad and your are not doing what he wants or saying what he wants, or doing something he does not want you to do, he will hit you again.......cute or hot in not the factor in your situation, call some the women's abused chelter and talk to staff there for a clear view of a abuser......
2006-10-08 12:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah course you should darling but make you tell him he can kick you in the teeth as well when he does it again cos you would'nt wanna lose a really hot an cute guy like him would you !
2006-10-08 21:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to be a statistic get out while you can, It is a know en fact that most abusive men either end up dead or end up in prison, If you chose to stay with him and be abused, then don't come on here asking for advise.
2006-10-08 13:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great reason to stay. He won't be cute and hot in 20 years, but i bet he will still be knocking you around.
2006-10-08 09:35:27 · answer #11 · answered by Jen G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋