I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. he's my first. first everything, actually. we're now in college and in a very long distance relationship. he's very "in love" with me, and misses me so much, but i dont feel like i share his intense feelings. i still care about him, but i dont find myself missing him like i feel like i should. at times i do, but things just aren't going smoothly...he does everything and anything to show me how much he loves me and he calls/texts/emails me constantly, but i just find myself questioning my feelings...how do i know? has this happened to anyone else?
2006-10-08 09:13:34 · 14 answers · asked by sugar56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to that small voice inside you........
Carpe Diem!
2006-10-08 09:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this has happened to me several times because i have been experienced. you may feel like you are not having any feelings toward him right now, but knowing that you care about him, still means that you still love him, but just not much bcuz you have given all yur feelings to him at first sight and now all his feelings are towards you..keep the relationship going and dont miss the chance cuz you may never know that this was one big chance that you might have miss and will regret it. i hope you feel better. i know its kind of a weird feeling, but you will get use to it. it comes around every once in a while though. trust me it does..
2006-10-08 09:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i am not as old as u...
but i know how u feel
i had this boyfriend, we had been together for about 2 years...
but i relized the same thing u did...
i didn't want to be around him as much...
i ended up breaking up with him
at first we were kind mad at each other...
but then after a few month... we got over it
we r BEST friends now...
i have a new friend that i care DEEPlY about
and my old boyfriend and my new bf r friends...
so we all hang out together!!
maybe u should try to do the same
try being friends and see if it works out better for ya
good luck though!! =]
2006-10-08 09:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by SaVaNnAh BaNnA =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This as happened to me. You feel like this because you feel yourself drifting apart from him day by day, You and him should set a date and time every second month so the two of you can be together and that way it wont feel like he's bugging you 24/7. If this doesn't work out then that means you want to move on
2006-10-08 09:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have 2 ask the question than more than likely your not in love any more, im sure you still love him just not in love with him which r 2 different things
2006-10-08 09:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u sayin I think u should just take some time alone and think about the way u feel about him.And I mean really thimk about it
2006-10-08 09:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u are getting bored...try to spice things up, or try dating another guy and if u feel good u should do what is best for you it will be hard either way just dont lead him on if u wana leave
2006-10-08 09:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the fact that your even questioning that you don't like him anymore probably means you don't like him. You may still have fellings but he is probably just not the one for you. You need someone who you can spend of your life with.
2006-10-08 09:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Hollister Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM I LUV HIM BUT THEN I DON'T B/C OF THE LD THING BUT I I JUST TOLD HIM & WE TALK ABT BUT WE R JUST FREIND TALK 2 HIM ABT IT & LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL B/C BY U NOT TELLING HIM WILL REALLY MAKE HIM MAD & IT PUTING MORE PRESSURE ON U TRUST ME I KNOW I JUST TOLD HIM LAST WEEEK
2006-10-08 09:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question just by asking it young lady.
2006-10-08 09:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋