i like this guy and he really likes me. we told each other how we felt two years ago. we arent together but we are still with each other and faithfull. but his parents dont want us together. would you wait til they say okay to or would you just walk away? and if you do walk away would you do it sooner or later? remember we totally love each other. he has been the love of my life for 4 years.
2006-10-08 08:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait, it seems that the two of you have something so special, and I think if you wait, his parents will change their minds about you, It may be they do not want anything to get ahead of his education. so stick with him!
2006-10-08 08:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this relationship to be still going says it all - there is something worth fighting for here.
You don't explain about why they are so down on you, but if you are over 16, frankly, it is up to the two of you to decide for yourselves whether it is worth taking the flack from his parents and carry on seeing each other.
If you decide to continue, and you handle the situation with firm but gentle tact, they will come round eventually, because they will see how happy you are together, and they will be forced to accept that if they want to keep on seeing their son, they will have to get used to the situation.
Best of luck either way.
2006-10-08 08:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love shouldn't turn a heel and run.
IF your both under age, wait tell your 18 and be together rather the parents like you or not.
Isn't there ways you can change their opinion of you? So it wouldn't cause family problems?
Stay. If it's really true love, you'll be provong yourself and your love by staying and waiting.
2006-10-08 08:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on your age,if your under sixteen then i can understand your parents wanting the both of you to wait,if this is a boy who gets into things he has no business then that is another good reason for them to say wait if this is the case then move on with your life before you end up in trouble with him that the way his family might think of you,maybe their concern about his education not being able to do both
2006-10-08 08:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not too much his parents can do about it.
If you're both in love, keep ahold of that reguardless of what the parents think of you. Keep this in mind though, later in the future if you decide to marry him, their parents minds may never change about you, and it's something you'll have to live with for the rest of your married life.
Dex
2006-10-08 08:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by dextersadventures 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you totally love each other than dont let your parents ruin your life. His parents may never want you in his life but it only matters what you and him think.
2006-10-08 08:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait 4 the ok! you can never walk away from true love, and if u try 2 u will regret it!!
2006-10-08 08:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by John Cena ♥'s Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to ask yourself if the "parent battle" is something u want to take on. family can ruin relationships if they dont approve. if you think that eventually they will be accepting and all they need is time and to see that you are honest, then i say go for it. If they dissaprovement is something that you know will never go away, then it will end up ruining your relationship eventually. so think about... and it will come to you.
2006-10-08 08:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Alixa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the ages of the two involved and the type of relationship you both want to have.
2006-10-08 08:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by mad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the parents should be supporting.after all,ur in love with him,not his parents.tell them that u really love their son,and that ud do anything for him,and that it means a lot to u for them to be supportive of u two.if they still arent supportive,let ur boyfriend talk to them.
if they STILL arent supportive,then be with this guy anyways.it u twos life.
2006-10-08 08:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋