This question is intended 4 quys. Do you like to be approached by a girl or the other way around? Say, if a girl writes you an email and just tells you that she's very attracted to you, how do you take it? Do you lose interest in the girl because you weren't the one to "win her" or do you find it nice? Or maybe you find th egirl too agressive? I'm really curious...
2006-10-08 08:14:20 · 14 answers · asked by pope1882 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how interested I am in that particular girl. I've been totally thrilled to get messages from girls I was into, and I've been totally turned off by girls that I wasn't that interested in.
2006-10-08 08:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will depend on the personality of the guy in question, some men like agressive ladys other don't. Bottom line you should do what you want and if they can't handle it move on.
2006-10-08 15:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, but have done extrensive study in these type of issues. You need to read two very important books, "He's Just Not That Into You" and "Why Men Love Bitches". With those 2 books you will grow greatly in your knowledge of men. It has revolutionized how my friends and I handle relationships. Take it from one who has been looking for the secrets for years.
2006-10-08 15:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by bradiegirlrn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a double edge sword for us.. If I approach you with confidence, you may reject me and then I feel like crap. If I don't approach you, now I'm a wimp and not confident.
Personally, if you send me an email, note, or call, then I know it's possible so I go for it. If not, but I like you enough to be willing to accept possible rejection, then I go for it too.
2006-10-08 15:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back in the day .. if a girl had written me with a note like that .. I would have been the happiest guy in the world. Are you kidding ? You know how good that makes a guy feel ? .. It's excellent ! You will melt his heart. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-08 15:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Although i am usually the one who shows interst in a lady i'd wish to know of...
Alot of the times i am approached by the lady and asked out or to dance or to party,we'll say...
I like when a lady shows that she is not the least intimidated by any man...
Kinda gets me going...then us going...
Thank You
2006-10-08 15:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm more than happy to be approached by a female. Who's really keeping score anyway?
2006-10-08 15:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Gene Rocks! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It amazes me how many times I have seen this question asked. I like it because it shows she is confident and willing to do whatever she decides she wants to. It's not like I need her to do that, but some not so subtle hints that she's interested are always appreciated.
2006-10-08 15:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a girl tells me she is attracted 2 me, lets me know i at least have a chance...get tired of the guessing game or someone trying to string you along...just be honest and open...
2006-10-08 15:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by eazylee711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would be flattered, because it takes some guts for a woman to do that.
Carpe Diem!
2006-10-08 15:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋