i started a new job recently as an apprentice and i have a huge crush on my boss.
the problem is that my boss is a woman. i have never had feelings for another woman before and now i'm really confused. when i'm at work i want to be with her and when i'm not there i'm thinking about her.
i can't change where i'm working because i'm too far into the course to change, if i start the course again next year then i will need to pay because of my age (the course is only free to 23and under)
any suggestions??
2006-10-08 08:00:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am already in a relationship with a guy and have been for about 3 months
2006-10-08 08:04:22 · update #1
lol hahaha get a boyfriend and thats just temtation just ignore it
2006-10-08 08:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by lalalala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what they say about getting involved in the work place, you could get fired before you even get a job and that could be costly, right now it's free. The feeling of an attraction is awsome, but you have to realize that money paves the way in this world today and as each year passes it becomes more and more expensive to live in, besides love is everywhere and loving a boss can get you nowhere......... Good Luck!
2006-10-08 08:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by huntrus06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let your boss catch on to how you feel because you may get a really uncomfortable reaction. Just admire her in secret and try and push it to the back of your mind. If your boss is attracted to you she will give you signs. Just think what it is about her that attracts you. Could it really be her position of power you admire or perhaps you may wish to be like her. Everyone gets confusing feelings of all sorts towards people. You will find love in your life no matter what. Just relax and assess the situation
2006-10-08 08:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by DONNAIS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have a crush on the same sex, having crushes on them doesn't mean that you are outright lesbian or gay. Maybe she just had this great impact on you that's why you admired her. Don't do anything rash that would only put you on a bad light specialy during this times. In time it may pass, but if it did not then maybe you have to start sorting your self.
I had an experience before that i had a crush on a female collegue, it just turned out that no i am not lesbian but it is something that my surrounding made me feel (it is an exclusive for girls school) but after sometime and after transfering to another school it just proved that no i am straight.
2006-10-08 08:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by firedragon_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting situation for you to be in. Ask yourself why you have a crush on her, and examine if it is really a crush you have on this woman. Are you sure it is not a form of hero worship? How soon after you started working there did these feelings begin? Use critical thinking. If it's going to be corporate suicide, perhaps the best thing to do is to re-evaluate the situation and focus on your priorities.
2006-10-08 08:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admire her as your boss only. I dont think its a good idea to mix buisness with pleasure reguardless if its a woman or a man. You havent told us if shes married....likes men or women???? Do your job and admire her from afar. Unless of course you want to take that chance with her. Then you need to decide on your own.
2006-10-08 08:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First I think you need to ask yourself how you feel for this guy, in a nimber of ways. As in, do you fancy him? Sometimes people dont know until this kind of thing happens. One of my friends is bi and he didnt know until he realised he liked one of his male friends a little more than he should. Are you sure it's not like an admiration thing? Like the way she dresses for example. I think you need to take a step back and really try to figure this one out
2006-10-08 09:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Carole T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough, I'll give you that, but you should keep this crush to yourself.
I have just ended a relationship with someone I work with, it is the HARDEST thing I've had to deal with, you see them everyday! Plus, she's your boss!
A friend told me once "Don't s**t where you eat" and now I understand what she meant :(
2006-10-08 08:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by HiKo73 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe u like women in power and personality but not physical buddy so, try to in deep your feelings.
then is your boss lesbian if so, then think about you b/f if he has sex fantasy such as threesome then you have it all.
In all the case keep your job
2006-10-08 14:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by HAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never mix business with pleasure, things tend to to get icky. wait until you've finished the course, patience is a virtue.
Having feeling for another women isn't a bad thing.
2006-10-08 08:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never dip your pen in company ink. This applies regardless of gender.
2006-10-08 08:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋