I'm 22, hardworking, quiet, shy, and not a party person. I read a lot, i stay home on wkends watch tv, i love indoors, i cook meals for myself and family, i surf net, read the news, i enjoy watching movies and sports, sometimes i can be funny, but i think can be rather boring.. =P .. my ex dump me because i didn't want to have sex with him (we kiss and all i just think i should only do it with the person i am eventually going to marry) ... emmmm... i wish my life to be more interesting but i don't know how =| ... anyway i was just wondering if guys will be interested in a girl like me?
Or should i make any changes, anyone think i should, what should it be?
Pls advice.. thank you!.. hee~ =)
2006-10-08 07:43:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't smoke or drink. I am also a free thinker. =D
2006-10-08 07:44:44 · update #1
just be yourself...and hopefully the right guy will come!
2006-10-08 07:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbi Jo D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, how will a man find me?
Most of the things you listed are done in your home, and if you've gone through the friends of family, people at church, or school, or work and still can't find a man, then you have to get out more.
There is someone for everyone and although virginity is overly rated, there will be a man for whom it is very important. I have to say though that that type of man might not be interesting to you. since they tend to be very religious or controlling.
But if that is what you want then you will find a man like that.
2006-10-08 07:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change for I guy to like you if you change then they like you, you aren't being true to yourself. So where out there there is a guy that was made just for you don't change. It will only hurt in the long run. I hope I help.
P.S. If you want to spice up your life try joining a group or a singles club with poeple that have the same intrest and goals as you.
2006-10-08 07:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Soccergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't conform to what you think people will approve of.....that is just dumb. Why would you want to change just to attract someone who is only attracted to the fake you? Eventually you will get uncomfortable and it would never work out....I think you sound fine just the way you are....not everyone is all about adventure......you will find someone....well, you might want to get a hobbie that you can do away from the house to give you the opprotunity to meet someone that you have something in common with....remember, the interenet is a nasty place to meet people. Peace out
2006-10-08 07:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by emmerbeansmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a wonderful person and like you are quite content with yourself. Just remember that there is someone out there for everyone. I went through a partying stage and my boy friend got fed up cos he wanted to stay home more (i think he was at a stage when he wanted to settle down). Hell if i was a guy i would like you
2006-10-08 07:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will like someone like you, but it won't be the typical guys to get your attention. You sound ALOT like me!! I am a homebody and quite satisfied while finding things to do at home. It will take someone really special to want to be with you. There won't be many guys, but believe me when I say there are some out there. Very rare. You sould like you have a good head on your shoulders. Don't change and be patient finding that special someone. My best wishes to you. Good luck!
2006-10-08 07:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things. . .
1. DON'T CHANGE
2. You never know who you will be married to until you get married. So wait until AFTER you get married to have sex.
Okay. . here is three. . .Sex with the right person is usually the person who can get you to have it. . .at least that is what your mind is thinking at that time. It does not mean it will be the right person for life. (Married or not). It takes a special person to feel secure about themselves and a lot of self restraint to avoid sex when your body is yearning for it. A man who loves you first, will understand this. I did with my wife. . .I loved her first. . .had sex after marriage. . .it's 35 years of knowing we made the right choice. . .good luck
2006-10-08 07:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are guys out there wishing for a girl like you!!!!
The important thing to remember is to be who you are, only make changes that you feel you need to make, not to impress someone else, but to be pleased with yourself. If guys don't want to respect you or your wishes, then they don't deserve you.
Always remember that!!!!! Best wishes!!!!
2006-10-08 07:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change your personality. all you have to do is be yourself. eventually youll find someone. to make your life more interesting, try something new. an activity of some sort, maybe take up yoga, martial arts, or of that sort. enrich your life with interesting stuff, and guys will find you interesting.
2006-10-15 19:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Thrumper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding? i would kill for a girl like you! i mean that honestly! if you wish to be more adventurous then grab a friend and do something. go slow for starters do ice skating and bush walking then kayaking or abseiling and finish with sky diving. it will make your heart jump in a good way. but dont change to meet guys. do it for you because you want to.
2006-10-08 07:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change, just keep being yourself. The right guy will love the way you are and then your both going to be happy in love.
2006-10-08 07:50:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋