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Should I give her the prayer box yes or no? What should I say to her when I give it to her if yes.

2006-10-08 07:40:14 · 18 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

this was 6 months ago when the baby passed

2006-10-08 08:00:25 · update #1

I have the baby's birthstone in the prayer box, is that okay?

2006-10-08 08:07:51 · update #2

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I think the person who posted the following was dead on. That would have been the way I would have liked to recieve something like that when I had my miscarriage. There's no akwardness that way and she can have the moment to herself.
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Don't say anything. Leave it at her home with a note enclosed that says........God doesn't promise that we will understand why things happen. He promises that he will see us through them.
I am sending all my prayers your way in this prayer box because I love you. "

2006-10-08 07:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yes give it to her,It will make her feel better. That is a very thoughtful thing to do, why cant more people be like this. Just reassure her that u are there for her as a sister and as a best friend and u will keep her in your prayers and that God has a plan for everyone and that she will have another baby in the future that she will carry to full term. Just because she has one miscarriage does not mean she is at a higher risk of having another one. God had this happen for a reason and he will give her a baby when the time is right. =)

2006-10-08 07:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i will def. pray for you and your little sis. the only solid component approximately it this subject is that she is extremely youthful and with any luck won't bear in mind a component and which you mom is going to get the help that she needs. it is mind-blowing that she has a huge sis such as you to show her each and every of the affection she needs. basically be there, it is all you're able to do. there are a number of of frightening issues which could and function happend interior the ten a million/2 years I even have been a mom. My son replaced into bit by our canines and replaced into interior the well being middle for each week, it is likely considered one of the scariest. i'm hoping no person ever has to pass by using that.

2016-10-15 23:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Yes. Tell her god probably thought he/she was to perfect to be in this world and her baby will always be with her. Tell her to keep her head up. Because my sister had like a miscarriage and after the doctors told her she couldnt have any children the lord blessed her with a beautiful little girl. Also tell her when she goes to heaven she will see her baby and her baby will be perfect just like she will be when she goes to heaven. You should soothe and comfort you sister now when she needs it the most.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SISTER
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

2006-10-08 07:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 1 · 0 0

Yes, I think having a miscarriage doesn't make a child any less real. She will never forget that baby, so whether you bring it up or not, she is always going to remember that baby.


I think that this would be a good idea.

2006-10-08 12:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0 0

I think it's wonderful. Most people don't understand what it is like to have a miscarriage. You really are grieving for the loss of a child. Most people look at it more like an appendectomy or something. Just tell her you love her and are praying for her and are there for her if she needs to talk or just wants to cry.

2006-10-08 07:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by RelayLover 2 · 1 0

Never heard of a prayer box. Does she believe in prayer? If not, this might be a bad gift.

2006-10-08 07:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0 1

Don't say anything. Leave it at her home with a note enclosed that says........God doesn't promise that we will understand why things happen. He promises that he will see us through them.
I am sending all my prayers your way in this prayer box because I love you.

2006-10-08 07:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 1 0

I hope your close to your sister, because your stepping on not so solid grounds right now. Sorry to hear that she lost a child!! As for the answer,depends on how she feel about this box?????

2006-10-08 07:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by mdzevolveddammit 4 · 0 0

Wow, that's great. I think you really should give it to her. It shows your love for her and that you are thinking about her in a time so horrible. When you give it to her, you should let her know that you are in her prayers: thoughts.

2006-10-08 08:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by joanna19f 2 · 0 0

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