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My ex. bf wont leave me alone and keeps asking for more money.I am 18yrs old and 4 months ago while my ex. bf then bf was teaching me how to drive in his firebird he told me i was driving too slow and to speed up i did and the car flipped over completley we were upside down. Afraid to get in trouble he told the police he was driving since i did not have my licence yet only a permit and he was 20.He got slapped with a reckless driving charge and a fine of $600 dollars for it. I paid my ex. bf 1400 dollars in damages that were minor really to his car and last month gave him 300 dollars for the fine. Unfortunatley that was his second reckless driving charge and 3 weeks after this he got another this time they took his license and a larger fine away i dont know the details. But he keeps calling me asking for more money i dont have anymore though?can i do anything?

2006-10-08 07:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by mandy h 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I am really scared of him he has a bad temper and attacked me once while drunk and gave me a black eye my parents forced me too break up with him after this a file a report .

2006-10-08 07:17:57 · update #1

I dont want him to show up at my college again.

2006-10-08 07:19:08 · update #2

12 answers

it is time for you to go to the police and tell the truth , as well as get a protection order against him. good luck.

2006-10-08 07:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by soawake 2 · 0 0

You call him one last time, and warn him, that if he ever comes near you again, you are going to the police, and get a restraining order, tell him you have payed him enough money, and that he has to take some responsibility for the accident also. And hang up, say leave me alone.

2006-10-08 14:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 0

You need to put a stop to this blackmailing.. You don't owe him anything else. He lied to the police he took the wrap for it.. That is his lost,, you can press charges on him for threatening, black mailing, harassment. Tell him your not giving him one red cent more and if he continues your calling the cops to press charges. I believe you should of told your parents or friends just in case he is a true nut. you might need a witness.

Take control, you will not be bullied no more.

2006-10-08 14:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0 0

Stop talking to him, don't answer his calls, don't answer the door, and don't give him anymore money. Call the police if he will not leave you alone. File a personal protection order. Start keeping track of every attempt he makes to contact you. Don't let him bully you.

2006-10-08 14:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0 0

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2006-10-08 14:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell Him To Go To Hell!
Find A New Boyfriend With A "BIGGER BAD ER" Temper.

Or Go to The Cops, and have the Bum, Locked Away!

He Does Not Own You, and He must Learn to take responsibility for his own actions, and his own life! Right?

2006-10-08 14:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

first of all.... he's now using you for the money so don't give him any. he knows you are scared of him and he thinks this is why you'll keep handing it over. second.... if he really is a threat to you then get a restraining order against him. this way he cannot contact you, or come near you unless he wants to go to jail! you gotta put your foot down and stand up for yourself. good luck.

2006-10-08 14:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0 0

Get a protection order

2006-10-08 14:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by sherriecrazyhome 2 · 0 0

don't give him another dime, go get a restrainig order from a judge, and by no means ever see him again

2006-10-08 14:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 3 · 0 0

change ur phone number get out of his life...this is a bad situation get rid of him...don't be afraid to tell someone when he hits u

2006-10-08 14:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Prissyp 2 · 0 0

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