Me and my boyfriend have been together for the greatest 3 months of my life. But lately he has been acting weird. At our school dance last week he wouldn't dance with me, but instead he danced with some girls who danced like sluts. Also, he never calls me anymore, when I call him he just talks to me for like 10 minutes then says he has to go. When I suggested that we go to a movie he says he's busy. He seems to be more and more less interested in me. Why is he like this?
2006-10-08 07:04:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god girl....you dont deserve to be treated like second best anything. dont even bring my attitude out to play....kick his *** out of your life. and for gods sake...look in the mirror and see how wonderful and beautiful you are. we dont need these guys in our lives who promise everything and deliver nothing.
trust me. i just went through the same thing. forget it. move on. do the things you love to do. make FRIENDS who are there for you. LIVE and be HAPPY. DANCE and SING. be HAPPY. life is too short to wait for some flaky man to call. YOU make the calls in your life.
2006-10-08 07:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by echolily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex yet because sometimes after a guy has witha girl, he isn't attracted to her anymore. I'm not calling you cheap but that's the way some guys act. I'm a virgin as of now but I have seen guys act funny towards their girls after sex. But if it isn't that, then maybe he wants to break up with you and is scared to so he's driving you to break up with him. That's what I do when I want to break up with a guy and is scared to. Talk to him or one of his friends. And at the next dance, dance with another guy and show him what he's missing.
2006-10-08 14:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is not in you, it's in him. talk to him about this matter, don't be afraid of what might happen. if the two of you broke up then let it be. i can tell you're still young, there's a lot more to go through. by the way, the idea that he's dancing with "sluts" means he's not worth it.
2006-10-08 14:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by birdhouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is probably not interested in you no longer. You have to move on. But don't let him see you crying or kind of down because the he will think that you love him and that you will do anything to get him back. Let him know that you can go out with whatever guy you want. That will drive him nuts!
2006-10-08 14:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Frances N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, you see your behaviours matter a lots may be he has requested of some certain things from you which you refuse to give him.Now call him and ask him some certain questions like"did he still luv you, ask him about what he like most when you know it,use it to win his heart by doing what he likes
2006-10-08 14:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Professor okunlola olusoji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy probably fell for one of the dancing sluts...I say the hell with him
2006-10-08 14:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by WW2 Dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, what should i change so my boyfreind gonna love me again?
call him to meet eachother,talk to him what you feel about your relationship and why he is acting weird lately but you have to calm down and control your emotions.
2006-10-08 14:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by babe2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the feeling faded once he got what he wanted and the attention...to him u were just a game in which he won and now that hes got his prize he wants to put u aside and head for something "bigger"...just dump him, trust me u wont regret it...if a man cant value what he already has he loses it...
2006-10-08 14:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably a sign that he isnt interested in you anymore
2006-10-08 14:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sound es like he got what he wonted and is now looking for a new conquest. forget him and fined a new friend, but do not give him what he wonts till you ar sure thats not all he wonts. happyness is not all in bed
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2006-10-08 14:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by sarg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋