I am friends with a distant relative of hers and he has advised me that she doesn't like a fast mover. So, I cant just immediately ask her out. I need some signs. (Body language, facial expressions, etc).
Most important, she is a sweet and churchgoing girl. She's not the bar type.
Girls, if you can help me out, please do so!
2006-10-08 06:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am also a churchgoer and the age difference is not a problem. We are both adults!
2006-10-08 08:56:40 · update #1
When you talk to her, just watch her eyes, they tell all. If you catch her looking at you and smiling that might be a good hint too. Just pay attention to her and i assure you you WILL be able to tell if she's into you or not.
I hope this helps!
2006-10-08 06:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Toto! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a guy likes you he gives certain signs. Such as he stares at you like crazy offers to help you with anything or ask you Just to hang out with you and some friends or just alone. He asks for your number and talks about you all the time. Try asking him random questions such as what are your weekend plans or something like that if he answers without sarcasm he likes you. Hope-I helped
2016-03-18 06:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's kinda hard to explain. Ya just know. You just ask. You shouldn't go around WONDERING what could have been. Take a chance. Do it before you get in too deep with her and get your heart broken. If your not comforable w/that then ask your distant relative if they think she is into you. Take a risk.
2006-10-08 06:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by J~Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are so many ways about dealing with this but first off get your foot in the door, ask around like a group of friends of your to go out to the moves or to dinner something and include her..... she might be the kind that wants to be around others but does not know how to... (how to get there) you do her the favor and hang out...... she could be attracked to you as a safty net just become friends and let time work with you two... your'll never know what could happen next...... some signs to look for if she blushes, joking with you maybe she might get dress up a lil more sexyer who knows not every one is the same.... let me know what happens....
2006-10-08 06:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it totally. We guys are never meant to recoganize hints..specially at the level most girls gives. we never had, We never do, We'll never be able to do it in future :D. Heck, there is a chance we'll screw up even if a girl comes over naked and says I like you...
I have only one rule.. If a girl is talking to me, she likes me.
2006-10-08 07:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by direct2leo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK well I hope I'm not the girl your crushing on but when I like a boy I usually try to get to know him better but if she's super shy she may try to stay more distant. Look hard for hints. Guys don't usually get the hints and that gets on any girls nerves. Also try and see if she tries to look extra good around you. Ya know like putting on nicer cloths and that kind of thing. Not only that but listen to her when she talks or somebody talks about her. find out if she likes something that she only motioned briefly for example that she really likes horses. Try to talk about them or say maybe that you wanted to learn to ride. Find out what she likes and let her know you maybe like the same thing or are kinda interested in finding out about that particular thing like horses. Then after she's more comfortable around you ask her out. If she doesn't know you well yet her shyness will more than likely take over and she'll say no and avoid you. That's definitely not what you want.
2006-10-08 06:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
being straightforward doesnt mean you have to be a fast mover. respectfully invite her to a daytime event. innocent and public. gain her trust and respect her. show her you are sincere and honorable in your pursuit. attend a church event with her. keep it short and simple. less is more in the beginning. shows her you are interested in her by not being pushy.
2006-10-08 06:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by deathwishpussy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could find out a special church function she is attending and ask her if she minds if you show up for that.
2006-10-08 06:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Curious George 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
good luck w/ the church types. they mostly go for crackheads.
2006-10-08 06:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
she stares at u
2006-10-08 06:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋