Two years ago I was confident feeling young and physicaaly in great shape but an illness has changed me pysically somewhat and I cant seem to pull the same birds as i used to. Is there an easy way to drop your standards and fall in love at the same time?
How do i learn to fancy less attractive (intellectually, physically etc) girls than before cos im finding it hard or will i learn to fancy less attractive girls matually the more desperate I get? Any advise truly welcome thanks
2006-10-08 06:40:04 · 12 answers · asked by Bengt L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
accept the fact you're not as good looking as you used to be and drop your standards. you clearly have the personality of a dead baboon in any case - maybe you should get a personality to make up for the looks you've lost.
2006-10-08 06:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid you will have to drop your standards mate.girls condemn men for being shallow and only going for girls based on looks etc but i don't know any good looking girls who will go out with ugly guys with terrific or fun personalities.its a fallacy that girls like a good sense of humour over looks etc.at least thats the case these days - its because of the advertising industry and the fashion world - dating ugly is now socially unacceptable. but then i guess you are doing pretty much the same thing we all have our standards i guess you'll just have to lower yours a little.its not easy i got to do the same pretty much - your in good company.
2006-10-08 13:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alex P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you are rejected because usually those highly sought after attractive catch your eye kinda gals are too stuck on themselves to care about anything other than looks.
Illness or not that is probably something you wouldn't be interested in. Or maybe image is everything to you?
There are lots of mature, pretty and smart girls that dont really care about looks all too much. They care about who the person is, and that really should be what you are looking into: WHO the gal really is and not what she looks like.
2006-10-08 13:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you approach a girl and it does not work, you move on until you find another one. Like jumping from one place to another. Do not be discouraged with just one failure, just have fun. You're a Man and this small thing should not put you down. This story of yours happen also to normal people, be confident and be yourself! . Act as if you have nothing to loose.
2006-10-08 14:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by anobangtanong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,why stop going after the same kind of girl.Maybe your confidence has been battered by the illness.If so get yourself out & try to relax that girl just may just come your way.Goodluck.
2006-10-08 13:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you will find the right girl for you now.
Maybe you have been looking at women for one thing and they in turn doing the same.
Now your forced to look deeper than their looks because the girls with the looks are no longer available to you.
You are who you are, you have not changed, your still the same! work on what you have, not what you don't!
You cannot change time, so work with the future.
good luck
2006-10-08 14:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never settle. There is no law that says we have to be with someone. We seem to think we do, but we don't. It's better to be with someone you love, care about, and respect, or with no one at all than it is to settle for less than you want or deserve.
2006-10-08 13:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Curious George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls like their "standard" of men - get into your right standard !
2006-10-08 13:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, you are still the same person, you may be trying too hard.
2006-10-08 13:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have too high standards
2006-10-08 13:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋