Ok, I went to the clinic to put myself on birth control and the doctor said that she was worried about me because I had said that I had more than 5 sex partners this year. She said that it probably has a lot to do with my beauty. I feel horrible, I broke my fast for Ramadan and I ended up having sex with my boyfriend. I don't understand, it's really hard for me to say 'no' to a guy who says he wants sex. I don't even like to have sex. Why am I like this?
2006-10-08 06:23:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your are a classic good looking girl with low self esteem that seeks validation through sex, and guys know this
a guy knows the best thing to go for is the hottest looking girls
they often have the lowest self esteem since there whole idea of who they are is based on beauty and will do anything to keep that idea that they are wanted by all men ( and women to some degree in terms of competition ), so this vanity complex is the driving force that has them having mindless sex with strangers to feel any sort of self worth, all the while craving one man who will appreciate her for what she is.
BTW just because you are on birth control does not mean it cannot fail,
all birth controls have a failure rate, i only hope the guy you have sex with are using the same ( I doubt it ) or you be a very pretty single mother.. and then you find out how hard it is to really attract a guy.
after a while you be sick of sex and tired of being only wanted for you looks and body and not for who you are as a person
and that's unfortunate
as women like you often get hardened and often have trouble forming real and meaningful relationships long term
and then intimacy in all forms becomes very difficult
2006-10-08 06:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have low self esteem. You should think more of yourself, and know that you are a very beautiful person, and you don't need to have sex with a boy for him to like you. Actually if you don't have sex with him, he will probably like you more.
2006-10-08 13:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional therapy. Once you deal with your self esteem issues, and quit basing your self worth on whether a guy wants to have sex with you, you'll be able to do what you want.
2006-10-08 13:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u know ur ugly and this is a form of self validation. u broke your fast on ramadan? your'e going to hell for that.
2006-10-08 13:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Curious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well some people are born to be a pleaser and i guess your one of them just dont forget to put on the glove before making love.
2006-10-08 13:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your fear of being alone, unloved, insecurities, low self esteem.....but mainly...you want to prove yourself being ..."wanted".
2006-10-08 13:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by micky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋