Okay. I like this guy, he's also on my soccer team. we are really close friends. But he likes 2 people (but he never talks about them around me) and we have a lot of close friens that are the same and go to different schools. i REALLY like him. and my friends think i have a chance with him. he always smiles at me and when he thinks i dont notice it, he moves closer to me so his arm is touching his, even the slightest touch, he does it on purpose im sure.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-10-08 05:52:36 · 19 answers · asked by Shayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Zone 3 boy hit the nail on the head! Just open your mouth and let him know how you feel!
2006-10-08 06:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell him clean cut and bluntly how you feel about him, no need to be shy, you will be more comfortable telling him relaxed anyway, and be confident when you tell him, then he might perceive it in a stronger light. Ask him about the arm touching in a loving but strong way as to get an honest answer perhaps. If you have the guts, while hes talking you could just give him one strong kiss and see how he reacts, if he doesn't feel that way about you, no harm done. you could still be good friends then, good friends never let kisses and stuff get in the way.
2006-10-08 12:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by francaisespresso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While at soccer practice, and making sure that your desired BF is there, exclaim a suggestion for all your friends to go to the movies/mall/or favorite hang out as a group date, and then allow nature to take her course, if he really likes you, then he'll make the next move, thus with a little luck he'll ask you out on a date.
2006-10-08 13:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the next move is yours. If he reacts badly and there's weirdness after that, then he wasn't really that good of a good friend to start with!
Take a chance! I think it could be worth it!
2006-10-08 12:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you two friends? If you are then just tell him how you feel and see what he says, if he likes you he will tell you. Trust me im a guy. Just be careful what you do. Hope this helps!
2006-10-08 12:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Light in the Dark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really feel the need to compete with 2 other people for this guys' attention?
2006-10-08 12:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young, if you ask him out and he says no then the embarrassment will quickly fade. If he says yes then just think about how happy you will be!! If he rejects you then blame your friends for misleading you!
Good luck!!
2006-10-08 12:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it cause if he likes 2 other girls 3's a croud and he's not looking for a steady.
2006-10-08 12:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soory dont know but thanx for the 2 points
2006-10-08 12:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by PETE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you let him know that you like him.The worst thing that could happen is you guys could be friends.Right?
2006-10-08 12:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by nick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋