This morning I told my so -called fiance that I had ordered something for my niece and he began acting funny saying: Now when I ordered my products I gotta wait for two weeks! Why didn't you tell me, you are inconsiderate! Then he called the lady that we order from and said to her answering machine: "Where are you, now I gotta wait two weeks!" he then turns to me and says that everytime he orders something he tells me, and I told him, " what if I am trying to surprise you? He then says: that is the stupidest example I ever heard! Then he proceeds to throw in my face, the problems I have at work with someone, and how they must be right about me. That I don't listen. What happened here? I answer to people all day long, why should he be mad that I ordered something with my money and put me down like that! What the hell did I do? I'm thinking of calling the quits.
2006-10-08 05:41:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am really appreciating the support I am getting. I just feel so bad because he also said that I am the one who yelled, and it was only because of what he had said. We had tried living together before and it never worked the three times that we did try. Keep those responses coming, thanks!
2006-10-08 05:52:50 · update #1
It shouldnt have made any difference to him about your order. Its obviously something else on his mind. If he mentioned the people at work encouraging him to break up with you, it may be because he is considering it.
2006-10-08 05:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question. You used your money, so why does he have to wait two weeks to order his stuff? Does he live off your money too? If that's the case you're better off without him. The name calling is a bad sign of someone who wants things his way or no way. No one has the right to put you down! You did nothing wrong. As you said, it was your money! You have the right to order something for your niece if you want to. As far as the comment about someone being right about you, you need to tell him where to go with that. Kick him to the curb! You can do better!
2006-10-08 12:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking in the right direction, why would you let someone treat you like that, if thats love its not what I'm looking for, girl friend get out of there, if he's like this now think of marriage and the rest of your life with him!
2006-10-08 12:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get the money thing sorted out, or dump him.
I think he feels money you both earn should go into the relationship first, then be decided how to spend it.
find out before it gets worse.
2006-10-08 12:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a jerk. Is it really that big a deal that he should flip out like that? Get rid of me, you deserve better, much much better. Good Luck
2006-10-08 12:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by sandee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.He's only going to get worse. Ask him straight up what the HE** that was all about and see how he explains himself.
2006-10-08 12:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits, hun.... he's a jerk... I'm sure he showed it in many other ways, but this is screaming,... " Dump him as fast as you can!"
2006-10-08 12:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your best thing to do is forget about him before it gets worse...
2006-10-08 12:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. Don't take that crap.
2006-10-08 12:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋