2006-10-08 05:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Pibb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make up your mind, if you don't you'll probably end up losing both of them as either mates or friends.
2006-10-08 05:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your relationship. Are you happy with it? Is the person you date is the one you looking for? If he is not, it can explain why you looking for someone else. Possibly you have that relationship because you couldn't reject the person and now you bound to be with him. You can always leave him you know.
For me, get to know that other person, if of course you feel something to him, and definetly if yoyu really like him NEVER Play "hard to get" its hard enough for him that hyou have a boyfriend and he wants to see if you really like him (if of course he is showing interest).
Try and talk to this person or just answer and talk to him when he is talking to you or trying to find out things aboutn you, don't ignore him.
After sometime you can make the decision who you like best, your bf or the other guy. You can always leave your bf but make sure you doing the right thing and that your feelings are right.
And yes it is normal of thinking more than 1 guy be that your bf or just a guy but on other hand it could mean you are not very commited to your current relationship.
I do not criticise don't get me wrong :)
Good luck, Wolfy.
2006-10-08 12:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird to think about them but its worse to act on those thoughts with the other guy. Is there a reason why youre thinking about someone else? Usually when youre not getting something you want from your current significant other your mind starts to wonder to other people. The best thing to do is look at your relationship and see if its worth keeping. If it is then work at it to make it better. If it isnt then best thing to do now is be honest with him. Follow your heart.
2006-10-08 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not so weird; one is love, and the other is just attraction. Be cautious in what you do--be sure it is what you really want--and think about what you might have to lose.
2006-10-08 12:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep thinking of more than two
but then I am into group sex
2006-10-08 12:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by wwJad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not at all.you like the feeling,so you create this fantasy in your mind and it's exciting.
2006-10-08 12:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your bf you r attracted to another
its only fair .... on him as well as you (u dont love him)
2006-10-08 12:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird, i do that all the time.
theres nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-08 12:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. See a therapist.
2006-10-08 12:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋