I met this guy at one of my government classes, we started to talk daily , and we ended up liking each other, I always overhear him talking about how he likes me but that i "play to hard to get" anyway, i decided to get closer to him this semester and exchanged my e-mail with him. He was so happy and so was I becuase I missed him so much during summer. However, he didnt e-mailed me for like a week so i decided to e-mail him first and invited him to brunch, yet its been 2 weeks now and he hasnt replied. I'm not sure if he doesnt check his e-mail or if he's simpl y not interested. I dont see him everyday anymore becuase we have different class schedules. Should I lay wait him and ask him face to face if he wants to go out and then give him my phone# what should I do?
2006-10-08 05:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would send him another email asking if he recieved your previous email. I would also just talk to him the next time you see him.
2006-10-08 05:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear L,
I have some good ideas here, I get the impression that, since this guy has been said to mention that you play hard to get, well, first of all, that brings a cool-mystery-like "atmosphere" to a guy when he likes you back, ok?
The other part is, he COULD be playing "hard to get" also!!!!! The kinda game goes for both--------- like, "who's gonna email first"........that sorta thing!
I see you have a good one going here!
The other consideration that you haven't heard from him is, could be good reasons, he might have had to go out of town, OR, maybe he has a job, but, believe me, if you're on his mind, he';ll contact you! Try not to contact him again, and stay busy------------- this tends to keep him "wondering".......... ya know? Then it brings more mystery!
Anyway, don't WAIT! As I said, stay busy and if he's really interested, he'll contact you any way he can! Trust me!
I could be all wrong, but I take it he is interested and it was a nice gesture that you invited him out too! That stuff can keep you on a guy's mind! and that's why I say try not to worry. You made a "move", so let him return it.
If you both have "chemistry" to begin with, I'm sure he IS interested in you!
Good luck to you!
2006-10-08 12:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead an email him your phone number if you like, but get one of those cheap throwaway cell phones. But it sounds like he's gettin' busy with another chick or maybe he's batting for the other team, or maybe switch-hitting. And the fact that he hasn't communicated one way or the other is downright rude. And the ambush tactic is almost as bad, unless you rig it so you casually bump into him. "Oh, hi!" Let him talk and watch his facial expression and body language. That will tell you all you need to know. It doesn't look too promising from here, I must say...
2006-10-08 12:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you got closer, then you can email him and explain that you would like to have brunch, maybe catch up a liitle, if he is available. offer your phone number. this way it is all left on his court to decide how he wants to move. I f you don't get a response from him by email or phone, I would move on. It will then be his loss. Loss of a friend and maybe even a girlfriend. Good luck..
2006-10-08 12:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and do not need the aggrevation that apparently you are under right now with him and all the worrying. Take this lightly, and live every day like it may be your last. Let him make the first move and meanwhile, enjoy life. It will happen for you-when it is time. This is something you cannot make happen for yourself. Lots of luck!! Have some fun....
2006-10-08 12:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by RULKN4ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try email one more time, and tell him to let you know if he gets it.If you do not hear from him, then you will know for sure, that for some reason he is not getting his emails. Then you go to the next step. Make an effort and give him your phone number. And then you can see how that will go.
2006-10-08 12:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put any more effort into him..You shouldn't have to wonder if a guy is into you... You will know... He has your email address SO if he wants to hang out or get together he knows what to do.. If he contacts you GREAT it will be a nice surprise but in the mean time forget about him...
2006-10-08 12:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him directly and invite him to a cup of coffee. If he refuses then he found someone else and is not interested in you anymore. If he says yes, then you have to take it from there. Good luck!
2006-10-08 12:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by mish_pl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u ought to know whether he is a shy guy. If thats not the case, he possibly is not interested, but since u have a past, u should talk to him to put the last dot of the last sentence which is "he does not like me"
2006-10-08 12:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait .. seems to me like his lost interest hunny and its a lil too desperate to do that so just wait if ya get a reply then see what happens if not jus move on there r plenty of other fish out there
2006-10-08 12:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋