2006-10-08 05:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs Mole 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i have slept with women that i did not find physically attractive. but it was not out of lust. it was her inerself i was drawn too looks aren't as important to me as the person herself it may take me longer to hop in bed with a ugly girl but if i find her inerself desirable then the flesh does not concern me.
2006-10-08 05:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too lustful???????? its nature, penance is not necessary...
Now for the first part, of your question, yes i have, depending on who's eyes are being looked through,,,, maybe i was the ugly one...LOL
2006-10-08 12:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by b72440 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no ugliness in sex as reaching orgasm will be the main objective. Each of us love, was created with a gift, so who knows, maybe that ugly individual may turn out to be the best lover you may have come across.
In a love affair if you align your choice of partners to attractiveness, then you will end up being disappointed.
2006-10-08 12:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by marizani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if it's done with ones consent, then the person musn't have been that ugly for the person doing it with that person. I can't imagine that someone can have sex with a person, whom he/she doesn't find attractive ... maybe the person's inner beauty appealed to that person. I believe that there is such a thing called blindness while being in love.
2006-10-08 12:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't done it, but I don't think you should pay penance for being too lustful. It isn't a crime, its just a natural feeling.
2006-10-08 12:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by meday 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what makes you so sure that a 'really ugly'' person can't be a great bed partner?....not all 'beautiful' people are good in the sack...so i think you are right to admit it to being lustful....i think it might be something you should ponder ..and stop doing 'it' at all...baddd baby no no now...
2006-10-08 13:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully they didn't think you were the ugly one. That wouldn't be nice would it. Now you know how they feel. Sorry lol
2006-10-08 12:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by hatfieldnomi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats disrespectful to the other person as well as yourself
besides... what they look like doesnt tell you what kind of person they are or how good they are.... you could end up having the time of your life
Isnt thats what light switches are for?
2006-10-08 12:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by miz Destiny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Strange thing is all my partners have been very attractive
2006-10-08 12:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by bwadsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men sleep with ugly women all the time. thankfully i havent though. lol. peace to you.
2006-10-08 12:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋