2006-10-08 05:06:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably embarrassed! Do you hang out by his friends? If so you ain't "all that" or he would be proud to be with ya!
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2006-10-08 05:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who would hold my hand---until he saw an attractive woman---and then he would drop it. It's a sign that he wanted the other woman to think that he was available. I suspect the same thing applies to how you are being treated. If your friend really respected you and wanted to be with you then he shouldn't have a problem holding your hand in a public place.
2006-10-08 05:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hold my boyfriends hand, cause I don't feel like it. He's always grabbing my hand as soon as we're in "public", and he says it's his way of showing me affection, but I feel it's his way of marking his territory! ( guess that's better than him lifting a leg and peeing on me), BUT I don't like it for the fact our hands don't hold right. Knowing this, I know he's not the right person for me. But until I get the weebee jeebies at me full force, I'll put up with it tell then.
2006-10-08 05:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you try asking him? I'm sorry to inform you of this but men are emotionally inferior to women. We don't like that wishy washy googley eyes she's with me attitude. You know exactly what we want, we are as simple as they come. Unfortunately "women" have to burden the responsibility of the relationship and manage everything about it. If you really figure this one out he will move the world for you and do anything to make you happy. Your task is to figure out what it is you are doing that is not working and don't do it. Like I said Sorry, but try it.
2006-10-08 05:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time, time, time. wait,wait,wait. it is a fast world out there -- the Internet, the computer, the music, the t.v., the radio, the downloads etc. but in terms of human spirit and feelings -- it takes time. From time memorial up to the present day -- feelings, love, friendship -- has not changed much. it simply needs time and you have to be patient. good luck to both.
2006-10-08 05:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys get embarrassed by public displays of affection. Talke to him about what his is comfortable with, he may loosen up if you work with him a little.
2006-10-08 05:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i could suggest is why not ask your boyfriend why he doesnt hold your hand , or maybe you just grab his hand when you are out with him lokk at him then smile!
2006-10-08 05:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by richardstz19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would'nt look at it as an insult, i'm the same way i don't hold my boyfriends hand, don't take to heart some people are'nt for that's all
he loves you.
2006-10-08 05:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His hands may sweat a lot and he does not want you to feel his clammy hands.
2006-10-08 05:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by justthetwoofus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why when my wife was still alive we held hands all the time.
2006-10-08 05:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋