they are afraid to tell that person because of how it might change their friendship. she doesnt want to tell me about them because she says im gonna get mad. i found out he asked her to hang out alone just the two of them... iono what to do... i think shes hiding things from me. she did not tell me any of this. i had to find out from someone else. n when i ask her about "guy" friends... she wont say anything about it...
2006-10-08 04:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by japanese blossom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is so wrong. Maybe the gf/bf isn't so attracted to the original person they are with, especially when they feel they have to "hide" it from them. If you can't be honest about a friend, then they must know it's wrong, but they are keeping you out of convenience. I wouldn't trust this person.
2006-10-08 04:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Trader 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she will not tell this guy she has a BF, it is because she is interested in him and doesn't want her to lose her chance with him. And, if she doesn't want to tell you about him because you'll get mad, it may mean she's already done something with him, whether just kissing or going all the way. If her friends are telling you about this, they have consciences and think what she's doing is wrong. You need to get rid of her and move one. It sounds like she wants to keep you as a boyfriend, at least until she can nail this other guy down as her new one. Either way, you get hurt. End it and move on to the next, hopefully one who deserves you more.
2006-10-08 05:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secrets destroy relationships. Give her the boot before she gets the chance to dump you for someone else. It'll make you feel better about yourself in the long run. She is not a good girlfriend at all.
2006-10-08 04:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you will bypass to the document together with her and the two certainly one of you are able to refer to her/him approximately meds that artwork without making her sense encaged or rotten with edge effects. If the document would not fee high quality of existence as much as handling the ailment, then it's time to discover a diverse psychiatrist. it is possible to discover meds that artwork w/o leaving you feeling terrible or not genuine, yet you prefer a document who will artwork with you. I extremely have bipolar and my drugs are exceptionally good. It took an prolonged time to discover them although. If she would be in a position to not choose for that, refer to her mum and dad or all of us who can talk some experience into her. you are able to attempt asking her how being depressed and cutting is extra perfect than being on meds, yet you probably won't get a ways if the meds weren't extremely engaged on melancholy. Idk. it is a tough argument if her meds weren't genuine.
2016-11-27 00:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a relationship where you feel things need to be hidden from your partner chances are it will not last...if you have reason to believe she is cheating on you and you ask her about it and she gives you a cold answer and walks off...chances are she has done something with that other person...you have to have trust in a relationship along with communication to make a relationship work and it has to be from both ends...if you do not trust your partner then you will go everyday that you are with them worrying about whether or not they are cheating on you...its not worth the stress level it will bring.
2006-10-08 05:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by dragoness131399 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with her one last time. its after sex when u do think clearly, its just a proven fact. you know this is not a healthly realtionship. if she cared about you and respected you, and knows you do not approve of that behavor,she would stop. obviously she is looking either passively or active for a better guy, and will do the same with the next till she gets tired of him. you know this at heart. so after you have done it one last time, break it off with her and find someone that will respect you.
2006-10-08 05:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay freinds, if she is taken then be friends. You never know what happens in hte future. And remember honesty is the best policy.
2006-10-08 05:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Good Grief 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't look like she is "taken," at least not from her point of view. Time to re-evaluate the relationship status!
2006-10-08 04:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly true. I mean, people DO do that.
2006-10-08 04:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Gaga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them before they leave forever
2006-10-08 04:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Haines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋