How to flirt?

Question

how to flirt in order to get him to notice me and hopefully, asks for my no. .. or is that too much to ask for?

Answer 1

Nope, you are not asking for too much :-)

The first thing you have to do is work on your self esteem. You won't get any attention if you feel like you are ugly or uninteresting.
Dress to flatter your body, don't slouch, stand up tall with your shoulders back.
Look him in the eye when you are talking to him, and smile. It shows that you are interested in him.
Complement him, but don't over do it. Small things like "what a great shirt" can go a long way. He'll know that you notice him, and that you like what you see.
When talking, if he says something funny, don't be afriad to laugh and lightly touch his hand or arm.
Get him talking about himself. The more you know, the more conversation you can have with him.
Open up about yourself, but don't spend hours on end talking about you. The more he knows, the more there is to like about you.
Avoid "closed" body language, like crossing your arms over your chest, scowling, frowning, looking at your feet when you talk, or walking too fast.
Don't immediately go for the sexual comments. They make you appear trampy.
Don't put on any type of act, you will come across as a fake.
Let your intellegence show, but don't over do it. You don't want him to think you are a ditz or a super brain. The first comes across as a bimbo, and the second comes across as intimidating.
When walking away from him, look back over your shoulder and smile at him. It lets him know that you would rather stay than leave, you want to spend more time together.
Avoid any conversation about past relationships. He shouldn't feel like you are comparing him to an ex.
Don't flirt with other guys in front of him, or with his friends. It's a blow to his self esteem.
Don't try to be perky all the time, it comes across as hyper.
Face him when talking to him. You shouldn't be looking over your shoulder.
Don't talk about your problems. He doesn't want to hear about the friend that stabbed you in the back or the unfair things your perents did. If he brings it up first about how something bad happened to him, just nob and say "Yeah, I hate when that happens" or something.

Most importantly, be yourself. Be postitve and happy but don't try to turn into something you aren't. If he doesn't like you for eho you are, then he's not worth your time.

Answer 2

Flirting is so much fun as its all eye contact and little laughs. Go with it and have fun!!!

Answer 3

Go up to him twirl yer hair
Wear nice clothes
Smile Alot


PEac

Answer 4

always try to maintain eye contact with him,also command sex and seductiveness in whatever u do try as much as possible to show ur true intention but wait for him to make the move.

Answer 5

Steps

1. Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
2. Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
3. Play with your hair or clothing.
4. Talk sexy around him to get his attention, and lick your lips, but don't change your voice too much. This can be a turn-off. Instead, just sweeten your voice a little, make yourself sound happy.
5. Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
6. Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
7. Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
8. Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
9. Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. Don't pretend to be a sportsy type when you're really a poet.
10. Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
11. Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname, so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too!


Tips

* Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
* Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
* Don't try too hard to impress him.
* Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
* Don't flirt with someone else's boyfriend or husband it only leads to trouble.
* Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
* Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you!
* Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc) so that he'll want to join in.
* Change your tone of voice when you're around him.
* Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
* Massages are always nice.
* Tell him you had a dream about him. If he finds this kinda creepy, then just say it wasnt 'about' you, but you were there!
* Don't apply lipstick, chapstick, or lipgloss in front of him.
* Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
* Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation.
* Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count!) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together!) feel she went in the exam?"
* Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him!
* Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
* Hint about a movie you'd like to see.


Warnings

* Be careful that he's not leading you on so he can make a fool out of you.
* Don't dress like a **** or skank, instead leave a little to the imagination
* Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend who will be a snob to you, if she finds out you've been flirting with him. She will have the right to be a snob to you, you're invading her relationship.
* Certain boys can sometimes be very unfair! So be careful if you tell any of his friends!
* Boys act differently around their mates.
* If his friends don't like you but he does you shouldn't let him keep you a secret. this just shows that he isn't proud of his woman and you want someone who wants you for you and doesn't care about what others think. You don't have to rush to say that you're in love or not; so don't trap him.
* Don't pretend to be interested in something just for the sake of flirting - if you decide to make a move, it might mean you end up pretending to be someone you're not.
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Answer 6

just start talking and ask them how they are,,ask them what kind of things they like to do...and ask them maybe we can get together sometime...and so forth....