Hey…This is really a difficult question to answer.
My friend got engaged with a girl last 20th. She is a nice girl and doing her post graduation in botany. But my friend had a lover (only one way love. He loves her, but she didn’t express her love before). After his engagement the old lover come back and they become in deep love, and they even share physical also. Now my friend is confused that, to whom he gets married? The girl who loving him also in a great confusion (because she also got engaged with another guy, last August). What’s your suggestion regarding this issue.
2006-10-08 03:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by Gopalakrishnan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
He needs to step back and do some real thinking. He can hardly marry this girl if he is a least infatuated with the old lover. It is really a no brainer if in doubt get out or there will be a lot of pain down the road. I mean they're already cheating before they're even married? No confusion and jeez please no marriages. You are in a tough spot, but I think your concern is commendable.
2006-10-08 04:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Saladmaster22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly this lover and this man need to call it off because neither of them are able to be committed to one another.
This girl (the lover) probably fell in love with this man once she realized he was marrying someone else. Some women lust after what they can not have.
This man should call off BOTH relationships and move on because he is hurting his fiance (which is terrible) and he is a fool if he thinks his lover will be true to him.
2006-10-08 04:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by PT&L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business if your the friend but I have an idea your talking about yourself, but don't want us to know that your a lying, cheating dog. How I know is nobody cares about their friend enough to want to ask people to give them advice so they can pass it on to their friend especially guys they just don't talk like that. The only reason the other lover is back is because she's jealous that he got(you) engaged she doesn't love him(you) she just wants what she can't have.
2006-10-08 05:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she is engaged...what is the matter of talking about the old things
2006-10-08 04:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have to marry anyone?
A person needs to be 100% sure before they commit to marriage, and your friend is far from it.
2006-10-08 04:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you butt out. Its their lives and they're allowed to screw it up as much as they want. Just be there for your friend when they need to talk. Its going to be a painful process, no matter what they try to do.
2006-10-08 04:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all need to seek counseling before they get married.
2006-10-08 10:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the problem? Go with the one you love.
2006-10-08 03:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With whom she is loving let her marry .
2006-10-08 04:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't this happen in the movie Clerks?
2006-10-08 04:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by WildPointer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋